I guess I must be doing it wrong..

@minx267 (15527)
Hartford, Connecticut
July 29, 2010 7:53am CST
I don't start a lot of discussions.. But when I do I usually have something to say. Granted sometimes too much and my discussion starters have been know to be a little lengthy.. But like I said... I usually have something to say.. I also try to ask a few questions to illicit some good responses.. APPARENTLY I have been doing it wrong.. This is all you have to do to get a dozen responses in a few minutes.. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2366355.aspx What the heck have I been wasting my time for? And you know what.. I bet nobody receives a comment back either.. I give up!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Well you'll also see that they're all from newer members, and you know the discussion will be deleted most likely anyway. If you've got something to say, I say say it, those who have an interest on it will respond, and make it even more richer, and even more enjoyable. I like to write long discussions to ellicit long responses.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I would rather have ten responses with lots of content, and many comments back, then one response that just says "I don't" like the one you showed us here. Oh and don't worry I was in a mood earlier for about the same reason. I mistakenly named a discussion "happiness" and the first two responses were about happiness and not what my actual discussion was asking. I'm kind of distancing myself from that discussion, hoping if I wait I'll get lot of responses from people who care to read it.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
You see, that's exactly what I am talking about.. I get that all the time.. Hell I didn't just spend 5 minutes writing for you to comment only on the title.. Next time I ask an inane question in the title and write a discussion that has NOTHING to do with it.. Just to see who the heck is paying attention.. That Really ticks me off.. DOH! you got me going again.... Cookies and milk, cookies and milk, cookies and milk .... ICE CREAM... ok, all better now..
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
That's what I do.. I would rather have people think and discuss and don't mind if a discussion goes on and on for a few days.. But I don't get that very often.. sometimes lucky to get a few replies.. Because people say they read the headline and don't bother to read the DISCUSSION. Well PARDON ME for being able to communicate.. oops.. I think I have just put myself in a cranky mood..
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@jerzgirl (9291)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Well, their discussion is in violation of mylot guidelines and has been reported. Stick with the rules, minx. Don't let cheaters (after the quick and easy penny which is all it amounts to) prevent your progress.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
The ellusive penny as as sure as they see it added to their account it'll be gone with the deleted discussion.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
glad to hear it, minx I am going to ask you as a friend as there's something I wanted to relay to you about a responder here!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
LOL.. now, you two made me laugh..
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@ElicBxn (63604)
• United States
29 Jul 10
It'll be deleted, its a "poll" type question
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@ElicBxn (63604)
• United States
29 Jul 10
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Jul 10
So will several of their other *cough* discussions which appear in their profile.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
I certainly hope so 0 which is why I didn't waste my breath ranting on their post!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Jul 10
Did you report that topic?
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
no...Apparently a dozen people think it's great!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
ye of few words!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Jul 10
It is what myLot admins think that counts If we have Guidelines we all know what we can post and what we can't and therefore what is reportable. If no-one reports then this type of crap will ALWAYS plague the pages of myLot
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
29 Jul 10
HA HA!!! I almost blew coffee out of my nose when I went to that discussion. Yeah, I'm like you, my discussions are usually quite wordy, but that's just the way I write. I get some responses, usually from my friends that turn the whole discussion into a FOOD FIGHT....or I get a lot of responses if I start a controversial discussion......which I like to do sometimes just to see what happens when you poke a stick into a hornet's nest. I think we've all started a discussion (I know I have) talking about why people at myLot like dumbed down discussions....."what's you favorite pizza topping?"..."what's your favorite color?"..."t-shirt or tank top?"...etc. I think most people see more than one sentence and they run to the hills. WHATEVER!.........they're missing out on some great discussions that could really get their brain TO START THINKING AGAIN. But alas........the vast majority of people are here trying to make those few pennies, so they treat myLot like a fast food joint and they're trying to find those $1 value menu discussions...........they can have them.......I like to read AND write.....and I usually ignore the little one sentence discussions. Anywho........I stopped caring a long time ago......if I get something in my head, I come over here and write it down......people either respond or they don't....it is what it is.....I'm not here for the money, I'm here to make people think.......and to goof off. Sorry for taking up so much space in your discussion.............I CAN'T HELP MYSELF!!!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Jul 10
Practicing are we bear?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
First comment goes to Mysd - It sure does seem like he is doesn't it? (I think I like this smiley now) Second comment goes to sconibear - huh? you totally lost me there, it was so long BUT I will reread it several times until it's pounded into my head where I can understand it, sorry it's about my bed time. So there's food fights in your normal discussion but not in your controversial ones? hmm maybe we need to bring some food to those! That's when it'll get really fun "I don't like what you said, here's a pizza pie to the face!"Kudos to the "$1.00 menu discussion" Another note to mysd - Going through the "no response" tab today reminded me of your discussion about going through the tab, well i did, and there was NOTHING I could respond to hardly anyway. It was either stuff I didn't know anything about, Stuff I didn't know anything about, or discussions headed for the recycle bin! minx267 - I agree that $1 value menu discussions thing was a classic, he should copyright it!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
Please DO NOT be sorry I LOVE reading- been doing it since I was 4. I LOL'd at your comment .. OMG, I love your analogies.. $1 value menu discussions that really tickled my funny bone.. Thank you, thank you, thank you for actually reading the discussion unlike #7 above you.
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@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Hahahaha!!! I saw this also and was surprised to see how many responses it got??? WTF!!! How come I didn't think of that question??? You should have changed the title of this discussion to ... Attention MysD and Stine1! I've been seeing these two rant about discussions like this all day yesterday and it is extremely fun to see them get pissed off. Oooopsss Sorry..they got offered ice cream and cookies for their frustrations to vanish... Sorry if your frustrated... Here have some Ice cream and cookies too.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 10
minx267, not quite done chocolate chip cookies? mmm sounds good, nice tall cold glass of milk!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
Mmmm. Mmmmm. Good.. If I didn't have to leave my house in a few minutes. I would be baking them right now.. I always keep a supply of toll house cookie dough on hand.. But I can tell you this.. As soon as I get back from my errands.. IT'S COOKIE TIME!!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
OMG! you know the way to my heart.. Chocolate (ice cream) if you don't mind and Chocolate chip cookies..-FRESH out of the oven and still warm. :- ) Thanks
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@BarBaraPrz (47359)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
29 Jul 10
Yeah, that's pretty sad... did you report it?
@BarBaraPrz (47359)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
29 Jul 10
Yes, I saw that after I posted...
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
No, apparently it would have taken away Stine1's enjoyment!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Jul 10
Whatever it was got deleted, so I guess the other person was wasting their time!!!
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
Yes they wasted everyone's time. .If you are curious though.. I just posted the ENTIRE "Discussion" to the responder 2 above you on this page... check it out.
@redkathy (3374)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Ah very good point! I was surprised to see 522 under the name! I expected a one or two. I don't start many discussions either and I gave up for a while too. There are people here of all types and for all reasons. Don't give up, just keep on being you
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
Thanks.. I noticed that "higher" number to and thought WTF.. I will always be me.. Because I really can't stand to many of the thems.. LOL
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@sumanadep (1228)
• India
29 Jul 10
Seems that I am late to respond to this discussion.. I could not read that link as it is no longer available... But Yes , when I start a discussion I hardly get a good number of comments.... I don't know what I am doing wrong.. I rarely start a discussion... May be m discussions are not interesting...
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Jul 10
You are a bearer of good news if it is now gone!
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 10
That's more or less true here.
• United States
29 Jul 10
Oh minx please don't give up! I did not get a chance to view that discussion as by the time I caught up with this one and saw the link it had already been deleted. Anyways I do not get upset if people are annoyed about my lengthy responses and or started discussions. I post from the heart and soul and I find I have assisted and guided several people her on myLot. I have also found that short and long posted discussion have assisted and taught me a few things or two. Although I have not always agreed with some of the responses and or posted discussions, I perhaps get a bit pinched nerve but here is how I see it, I take it with a grain of salt and move on. Viewing from the number of discussions under your belt apparently you have been doing something right, and although you may not have been told you have helped someone apparently you have not been reported a zillion times either, so you apparently are doing something right. Lastly, while posting our responses surely everyone has to notice that myLot says Please be as descriptive as possible. The guidelines also say that yes I agree is against the rules. So onward dear you are doing a great job
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
29 Jul 10
Thank you for your concern and your reassurances. To clear up a little curiosity for you and maybe any future readers who actually bother to read not only the discussions but the responses.. the deleted discussion went like this.. (headline) Do you have a dog? (Body of discussion) I don't. That was it.. and everyone and their mother started responding to that "discussion" like it was a good question? GRRRR....
• United States
30 Jul 10
Wow thanks for filling me in on it. I would not have responded to a discussion like that as firstly I do not have a dog and secondly ok what else is there to talk about after a yeh or nay. Whom luckily admin deleted as it would not have been fair for avid writers. Thanks again and have a wonderful day.
• Thailand
30 Jul 10
Don't worry to much! Calm down and everything will come clean, don't give up so soon, try your best, :-)