Caught up in friendship problems.
By zulcool93
@zulcool93 (30)
Singapore
July 29, 2010 11:00am CST
Hey there.Recently I encountered a problem between my friends.For some reason I ended up in the middle.One of my friends always said bad things about the other friend and the other does the same.When they have a conversation with me,I have to nod to whatever they say as I feel bad if I were to argue with them.However,I hope they can patch up together.Hope that some of you can give some advice so that I can lend a hand to bring them together.
P.s. I'm new here so some advice on how to use this website would be apreciated.
Sorry if there's any mistakes.
2 responses
@nthomas (43)
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1 Aug 10
Just make it clear to them what do you feel about the issue. do not hide your expressions. Just say it to them in a polite way so that it doesnt hurt anyone. There is no harm in expressing your own feelings. Anyways its better that you should atleast have a clear conscience.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Being caught between two dispute friends is difficult as each one finds that you need to be loyal to the other.
My best advice would be to clearly say to each at the time of complaint, I adore you as a friend and value our friendship, whatever dispute you have with the other is not going to affect my friendship with the other so I can listen and lend a shoulder but that is as far as it will go. Same for the other disputing friend.
As for being new to myLot - Welcome my fellow mylotter. Best to go directly to the FAQ and TOS, there are several dos and don't s I would give you the link but as a new person it is strongly suggested that you read through them. You my on occasional make a mistake, however you will be warned and then you will be directed to the reasons why.
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