Forgetful...

@ElicBxn (63594)
United States
July 29, 2010 3:20pm CST
Isn't it always the case where you think of a GREAT discussion, but you are not where you can get online and post it? Happens to me ALL the time! Today, I wrote them DOWN!!! Does it happen to you, or am I the only one?
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@artizan (195)
29 Jul 10
being a recently new person it took a while before i had the courage to start a discussion., but lots of thoughts., and i did write them down., which will be fine when i remember where i actually wrote them.., !! so guess you not on your own., do you think there may be idea gremlins, who distract you so you for get what you where going to say, and destroy lists too ??? best wishes x
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
absolutely! I've had list eating "black holes" for years!
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@artizan (195)
30 Jul 10
oh no !!! quake quake .. I hope it isnt catching i have enough with the gremlins no holes here please..!!! phew thankyou.. best wishes x
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• United States
30 Jul 10
Ha! I'm in basically the same boat. Now if could only remember where I left that stupid note to myself!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Jul 10
Of course you're not the only one. If I can, i'll send myself an e-mail or something so that I don't forget.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
the roomie gave me this book that her job sent her, its got that elastic stuff to keep it closed - I'm using that I was writing the discussions down while Maggiepie was on her computer... so I couldn't email them, unless I wanted to type LONG letters to myself on the silly little pad on the phone - not my idea of fun!
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
a few words would only be a teaser for me, I need the whole thing!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Jul 10
I do it on the phone if I'm away from the computer, but not the whole discussion, just a few words to remind me what I want to say.
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• United States
29 Jul 10
As you already know, I don't usually start discussions because I can never think of anything good to say, lol! My life is so ridiculous right now and I would feel that all I'm doing is whining all the time. Anyway, I did think of something about a week ago during the middle of the night. Must have been something I dreamt of or whatever, but, ahem, yes, it's gone. And I remember thinking "Oh good, that'll be interesting." Yeh, right, I guess we'll never know, haha.
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
(yes, I actually laughed out loud!) I am pretty good about NOT thing of them in the middle of the night, tho sometimes before I fall asleep - I try to "rehearse" them so I can remember them later... I always seem to come up with the good ones when I can't get to the computer, but this time I was DETERMINED to write them down! I even dated the pages so I wouldn't repost them again!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jul 10
hi ElicBxn oh my I am the first. wow. Yes indeed I thought of a great discussion in the middle of the night several nights back.Okay so I finally get to log on and hit new discussion and zoom what the heck was it I wanted to write about? I sat there and thought of so many that I could see were already out there, but the one I knew was not taken it eluded me. I sat there for ten minutes and grrr the intercom sounded for lunch and I was still sitting there with the screen already for me to write that wonderful discussion and nothing happened at all. Thats even more embarrassing than writing a great response and just as you type the last word it is gone, and hitting the back key does not retrieve it. At least then you still have the germ of your response in your mind. But to completely zap out thats so irritating. yes writing them down is a great way to save one's ideas.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
That's happened to me too! I try to rehearse what I'm going to post, but if I do it too much, I can't get back to sleep! some times, if its short, I'll go on my phone and do it!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Believe u are not alone. I have to write everything down or i forget it. Sign of the times, i guess or age, lol.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I'm tell you, this getting old stuff, it ain't for sissies!
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
oh my gosh this happens to me all the time and yes I write them down as well. LOL. my husband likes to joke that I have short term memory loss. haha. nice to know that I'm not alone in this.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I wish I were old enough to blame it on that! oooo I'll blame it on having that bad allergic reaction in 1984, after all, I really don't remember most of the next couple of years until I got to the allergist in 1986...
@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I have to write every thing down, or it is gone. That is because anything great, interesting , or creative sneaks up when I least expect it and I will be just laying down to sleep or something funky like that and there is an idea, or a poem. I hate it when I do that, because if I do not write it down, I never remember.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
amen! That's why I have been getting so... well, angry isn't quite right, but put out because I've had a few ideas that failed to make it here because I forgot them before I got to the computer!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
2 Aug 10
Hi Elic, yeah, that's happened to me but more often, I get the idea, run it around my brain a bit at which point I usually decide against it. Sometimes I get to take it a bit further and I actually start to type it out...sometimes I even finish typing it then I re-read it, consider it, (this is dumb, doesn't make sense, too private, of no interest, no-one will respond) then I delete it. LOL. Then it's on to the next one...
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
2 Aug 10
I have nearly 200 friends, I think, and only a small handful of them answer my discussions even though I try to make them as general as I can. I just can't figure out what I'm doing wrong...
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
6 Aug 10
hun, only a few EVER respond - and probably a lot aren't that active - don't worry - even a few is better than NO respondents!
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
2 Aug 10
I guess I've never actually gotten one typed up and not posted it. I can't say I get TONS of responses, but I guess I have enough friends now that I always get a few.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
30 Jul 10
When I started at mylot 4 years ago I went out and bought a notebook that has the elastic band around it and used that to jot down ideas, I carried it around everywhere. I also took my camera everywhere as I could take random pictures of things to use in discussions. It worked out great. Although I never started a lot of discussions and still don't I still have the ideas. I find it to be more interesting to respond, less work at times also. When I start a discussion I tend to want to be able to sit by the computer to comment to my responders as they are responding and not at a later time. Yes those times when the notenook wasn't with me I always think of the best things. Glad you got to jot them down today.
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I've started a lot of discussions, but I've responded to LOTS more! I really need to utilize this tool (the notebook) more!
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
30 Jul 10
Shoot, I have days that I go to the bathroom and forget why I went there I have paperwork to drop off at my financial aid office at the college I go to, and of course guess what...yep, I forgot it. I went outside to water the garden and forgot to turn on the water. Even when I do write stuff down, I either lose it or I forget where I put the list. Let's face it, I am hopeless when it comes to remembering things, including at times, how to spell my last name. Now, if I am in town and I come up with a discussion topic, I call myself at home and leave a message. Hopefully I'll remember NOT to delete it from the machine.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I used to call my phone and leave reminders for myself, but now that the roomie works from home, can't do that!
@ellie333 (21016)
29 Jul 10
Hi Elic, This happens with me all the time, I thought or loads earlier and my mind is blank now on most of them, have managed to post two though. Sad thing is I have even woken up at night before now with a discussion in my mind and forgotten by morning lol. I think I had better take a pen and paper to bed and do as you have done and write them down. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I can't take things to bed, the cats would destroy it over night, but I often think of these things checking my mail at Maggiepie's, and darn if I don't forget them by the time I get home!
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@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
6 Aug 10
I have a heck of time with this one. Not only that, but it usually takes me a long time to come up with something to discuss. When I do, I dash to my PC, and then forget how I was going to word it. This is probably why I ANSWER more discussions, than I create. cdrxo
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
6 Aug 10
I think most good mylot members do that, I know I do...
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• Canada
6 Aug 10
Well, it's like I've said sooooo many times before...THINKING only slows you down. Actually, it's probably got to do more with the fact that we all have or go through somewhat the same life patterns and situations. We find it hard to think of something "knew" to talk about, that would be interesting enough. cdrxo
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
30 Jul 10
I used to happen to me on a regular basis until I decided to write them down too! I’ve been doing if for a while in fact I have pages of what seemed like great ideas for discussions…At the time! When I go back I usually decide all the ideas are not suitable and I sit there and think of something different anyway...So much for my creativity!
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
well, I wrote the whole thing down and you have pretty much gotten the discussion as I wrote it, well, not EXACTLY, but mostly
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
30 Jul 10
That doesn't happen to me because I don't start too many discussions. If I did start discussions a lot, I am sure I would forget. Sometimes when I respond to a discussion, I forget what I wanted to say. I forget everything . I make a lot of lists and then I forget where I put them. I have to leave stuff out so I'll remember to take it with me, and then half of the time I forget it anyway. I guess that's all a part of getting old!
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I do the leaving out and forgetting thing myself - I've started putting stuff in FRONT of the door so they get taken out with me!
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
2 Aug 10
I so seldom go in anyone elses car, that is seldom a problem
• United States
30 Jul 10
I have a counter right beside the door with my keys and stuff on it. I usually leave whatever it is I want to take on there. Sometimes I get my keys and purse and glasses or whatever happens to be on the counter and forget whatever it is I want to take. I think I will have to put stuff in front of the door so I will remember it or trip over it. Sometimes I take stuff down to the car ahead of time so I won't forget it. That works unless I am going in someone else's car!
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
30 Jul 10
I don't star all that many discussions as I have a very hard time coming up with a topic of interest. I would much rather post responses, but when I do come up with what I think is interesting, I had better post it immediately, or I will forget it and have to think all over again what I wanted to say in the first place. I really should write them down though when I am away from my computer as I am very forgetful myuself and I have forgot a lot of what I wanted to say because I would be doing other things and by the time I would remember that I wanted to post a discussion, I had forgot what I wanted to say. I guess it does come of age though as I am not young anymore, and my daughter will tell me at times that I am so forgetful, as she will tell me something, and I would have forgot she did and bring it up, and then she would tell me, that she had told me that already. Anyway, from now on, if I can post an idea immediately, then I certainly will so I don't forget what I was going to say. Good luck to you and hapy mylotting.
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I remember about 10 years ago doing that with mom, at least mom had the excuse of having had strokes... I just have my allergies (and a few minor head injuries) to blame! the allergies, trust me on this one, are the more valid of the excuses... I really can't remember too much from late 1984 to late 1986