Men, what will you do if you are caught cheating?
By Bluerain25
@Bluerain25 (812)
Philippines
July 29, 2010 8:18pm CST
During our breaktime we often make fun questions with our men officemates. We used to ask them question if they happen to cheat. Some say yes the others say never. We asked, what if you get caught? they have different opinions but those are funny like someone say"it wasnt me" or "where am i". But what would you really do?
2 responses
@Thumb86 (287)
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30 Jul 10
I would never cheat to begin with. From having to deal with my parents nasty divorce which was caused by my fathers constant affairs. Ive seen the real ugly side that this kind of behaviour can spawn. So Your question is worthless to somebody like me. I also dont find these kinds of discussions "fun". Surely there are a veritable sea of other "fun" topics you and your office friends could discuss? no?
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
Im sorry to hear that thumb, but this discussion does not entail that all men are cheaters and i dont intend to say that you are or remind you about your father. We do it for fun in return for their making fun of us. We dont mind such discussions since there are no personal intentions of hurting others and it is purely nothing. If this one is worthless to you then why bother to answer? I know how it feels to be a part of an unhappy family life or that's what i observed the way answer my post. Ours was almost bring to seperation either when mom caught my father with another woman but that was long ago and we accepted him for that. It is just a matter of acceptance and forgiveness. I mean we are not perfect in here but we can choose to live on how we like it. If you choose you'd rather not then that's good. But we are free to discuss what we like in here.
@zemma1992 (126)
• Portugal
30 Jul 10
Normally when somebody asks me "Would you ever cheat?" I instinctively tell them "No, never!" But the truth is, we never know, i think i would never but who knows? I mean i have never been in a position of that sort before, so i can't actually say if i would or wouldn't cheat,specially because not all the days are the same, but if i was ever caught cheating i think my first reaction would depend a lot of the situation. for example if my girl cheated on me to i would say "You deserved it." If i loved her or even if i didn't i would apologize, because even if i didn't apologize she has feelings and i wouldn't like anybody to cheat on me
