help....i am so sick....

If you can't leave her ,you just tell her that are you not interested with me and be clear about ,if this is the causes than you have too because if we the love is from one person only and it has no value at all.we can't keep good relationship.

The girl cheated that's already hurtful enough. Punishing yourself because of that is unfair to yourself. Just look at things at a bigger perspective. You have to be thankful that she did cheat on you while she was your girlfriend. I bet, it would hurt more if you two are married and have kids already. Besides, it takes two to tango in a relationship. We could blame her for cheating on you but i'm sure she had her own reasons too. What you're going through is normal but sooner or later you'll be able to move on and find other girls more worthy. At the moment it is best that you spend more time with your friends that spend time alone doing so would make you feel more depressed.

hey dude! try to recommunicate with her. if you really love her....okay just that what i can give to you... keep spirit :)

divert your attention to other things. Move on buddy. She lied to you.

I think you should put your hatred towards her and try to forget her, even though i haven't been through what you have been i know it is hard to forget her specially to put your hatred towards her, because even though you might say it with your mouth that you hate her, you and i both know that you still have feelings for her because something like that doesn't heal like that and because if you had you wouldn't have posted this discussion. You should know that it is totally her fault, no one deserves to be cheated on no matter what they have done, you should try to think about other things and try to heal your broken heart with someone else, with a new love. I know that now you probably don't want to do that. Also another thing i think you should really do is never, but never show her how you are currently feeling inside if possible act like it never happened, i don't know pick up a hot girl and show her off to her "accidentally" because even though you might think it doesn't work because she might not have feelings for you anymore, believe me it does work, even if she doesn't love you anymore, it will have an impact on her. I hope i have helped, and cheer up, i wish you the best of happiness, for reasons like this it's why i lost my faith on girls a while back