Fall in love with someone secretly
By paofu2010
@paofu2010 (20)
China
July 30, 2010 9:14am CST
Recently I fall in love but it's secretly,which make me so boring.
At first he and I end up having a good time talking and laughing,but he suddenly ignored me and made his enthusiasm to a another girl.What's worst,now I think of him moring and night,but I am not sure wether he like me or not.Please could someone tell me how can I do?thank you!
6 responses
@parrot2010 (812)
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30 Jul 10
Is there a reason why he might have started ignoring you? That's not nice to blank someone all of a sudden. From you you said, if I were you I would just forget about him, he doesn't seem friendly to just ignore you. There are lots of other nice guys for you he's not the only one so stop worrying over him and just get out there and you'll find someone who will ALWAYS be there for you. He may have been using you I don't know, but just leave him to himself and move on there's more to life than that.
@tiffy413 (1)
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30 Jul 10
I'd be frank here. He's Just That Not Into You. There you go. It all summed up to 6 words. Honestly you're not "in love".. You just feel that way coz of your sudden closeness & his giving of attention to you "as a friend".. There I'm frank again. Don't worry thinking of him morning & night would eventually end. U might ask when? Life has something much to offer, look at the brighter side of the world.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Jul 10
Well if you have fallen in love for a person and that person has ditched. We give yourself some time dont give up easily and try to speak to him. he also is taking the advantage that as its been a secret. I he does not come back I would advise you to divert your mind and stop thinking about him.
@paofu2010 (20)
• China
30 Jul 10
Thank you for your response.I will try my best to stop thinking about him.
I doubt that when a guy really love a girl ,he will show warm shoulder to another girl.
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
30 Jul 10
If a guy loves you he's not going to go pay attention to another girl unless somehow in his mind thinks it will get your attention. But it all depends on the guy, if he's motivated to have this girl, then he'll make it happen. I mean when me and my boyfriend (for a over a year now) started talking he gave me all the attention and was straightforward with me. If you really want to know what's going on, be straightforward and just ask so your not guessing anymore and not waste your time on a guy that isn't interested. It sounds harsh but it's where it comes down to.
@paofu2010 (20)
• China
30 Jul 10
Thank you for your response.So what I should do is to talk with him.
@mightyspartan (61)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I am a guy and he probably thinks, your not the right one. He also might be a guy, that likes multiple girlfriends. If you can't stop thinking about him then, tell him how you feel. Make some moves on him. you also need to think, what type of person he is?
@paofu2010 (20)
• China
30 Jul 10
Thank you for your response. And I have another question:suppose a guy really love a girl ,will he show the warm shoulder to another girl?
