Love first Or Career oriented?
By kimkim888
@kimkim888 (145)
Philippines
July 30, 2010 10:09am CST
I'm caught in between.I care/love the the person but I have to focused on my review.A month after, he found someone in replace of me. I feel bad to what happened. I don't know if my decision is right or wrong to focused more of my career than spending more time with him....
2 responses
@sweetneelu (259)
• Mauritius
30 Jul 10
hi there,you must try to manage your time instead of choosing one.both of them are important.you can have lunch evryday together or give ur lover a call each time you can.from time to time you can make him realise you are here,present in his life.i guess if he loves you it will enough.
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
30 Jul 10
He didn't really love you if he left you because you wanted a career. I understand why guys expect us to throw away our lives on a whim and sit there and stand by them while THEY make a life for themselves. You are right to make a career and be stable first before "love". If he loved you, he'd understand and stay with you. My boyfriend knows I love him and even though he's not always happy about it, he knows in the end I deserve a good future for myself too and he waits for me.
