A room filled with people??? Love It hate It
By ANIME123
@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
July 30, 2010 6:47pm CST
Ok so today I had to go take my orientation thing and I regret bein a bit late the room was so full with people and for me that's a big no no. Not because I hate people I just get really nervous and in my head I was like calm down don't stutter or shake to show any signd of being nervous. I was so scared I felt like I was going to have a panic attack or cry. Really scary also I went to it alone because I was the only one from my friends that didn't have any problem taking the orientation online. These things always happen to me don't know why. There was this one girl in there who was very social and I was thinking in my head gosh I wish I was more like her being able to talk to anyone with out being scared. Still she is a kind of person does not like being by herself she was talking to some guy them some lady and then to me because she did not like to be not talking you know. Still those kind of social people I like because they don't care how you look and stuff you know they don't judge you on that they just love to talk. I love to talk at times, but when it's in a room filled with people I get really nervous. What about you what do you do when your in a room filled with lots of people. Man I forgot to mention that it was hot in their I felt my back and it was sweaty. I was like woah didn't know I could sweat you know. SO do you love it or hate it being crowded with people in a room.
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20 responses
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
31 Jul 10
I also admire people like that, Anime. That are social, friendly, they don't care what you look like, they just want to talk to you, because I have the same problem as you - I get in a room full of people ..."crap"...
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
31 Jul 10
Yeppers...expecially when those people in that room - you have never met before in your life. 
They're all talking amongst themselves and you feel like the odd one out.
They're all talking amongst themselves and you feel like the odd one out.
I get irritated and then i become rude.
I am very fond of my personal space.
TATA.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
I hate being in the crowd so I hate seeing people in a room, I don't feel it because I treasured being alone in the room. It feels like I am suffocated when I see too many people in the room. Usually I make an excuse if I can sense that there are lots of individuals in the room.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Jul 10
As for me I love being in rooms with lots and lots of people, I have absolutely no problem even when they are all complete strangers. Do not get me wrong I can be a bit nervous but it makes me all the while even more open to talk, talk and talk.
This definitely is a problem for a great deal of people and I understand it, if I see someone a bit scared and or nervous I especially approach that person with conversation to get them out of the nerve wrecking moment.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Absolutely always keep in mind that after it is over you do not go home with them and just maybe you will never see them again and or created some friends. 
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
31 Jul 10
If we've atleast few known persons in the crowd, then its fine. I cannot be in the room with full of strangers. I feel uncomfortable and unsafety too sometimes.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Jul 10
hi anime no large crowds make me nervous too and ill at ease. I like people in small intimate groips then I am at easy but a large room
full of people would make me so uneasy and ill at ease.I am shy
by nature and an introvert, not an extrovert.I hate being in a
room filled with loads of p eople. I like small groups of people that
I really know.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Hello Anime,
I do understand about what you feel.
I also feel the same way during my first experience of training/interviews.
Then,later i get used to it (but not that much) i am still having nervous sometimes.
When nervous attack us we cannot control our nerves.
We may shake,sweats a lot and got butterflies in our stomach (i hate that
)
Just took a deep breath and try to stay calm as you could.
Have a wonderful weekend
)
Just took a deep breath and try to stay calm as you could.
Have a wonderful weekend@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Yeah I always try to stay calm in situations like this because I don't want to show how nervous I am because then they might think that I am weird for getting nervous about nothing because people don't really see it as a big deal, but to me it is a huge deal.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Honestly yes I do hate crowded places but sometimes its not that hard to join and be socialize with them so I guess its not that bad to have crowded room but hopefully cops will join in that party 
@akopoaysi (739)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
I HATE IT!!! i dont like it so much. it feels like the people around me are sucking all the air and nothing is left for me to breathe. that's why me and my husband watches movie during he weekdays. and if we are both free during day time. that is the best time to watch.. or maybe just us. :D
happy mylotting!!!
have a great day to all!!
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
31 Jul 10
You find a friend so that you can feel comfortable. True when I'm also with a friend I don't feel shy at all and I feel like I can talk to anyone. I also stay silent the whole time because I can't bring myself to talk to a random person hopefully one day I will be better at talking to people.
@krnavtr (285)
• India
31 Jul 10
I hate the room filled with people.We feel very UN comfortable even to move.We will face a lot of problem like shortage and we may create misunderstand.We will not get fresh air to breathe.It won't be sufficient and there is chances of getting shortage like kitchen items.I don't like room filled with people as i like 2 or 3 and i am here staying with my friend.
@carline612 (142)
• India
31 Jul 10
I just hate to stay in a room that is filled with lots of people,because it is very noisy people chatting with each other,I feel very shy and I get nervous very first.And also there would not be proper ventilation the room will be very hot very difficult to breath also.I don't feel comfortable to move my body and even its very tough to get a walk way.
@rangasri (45)
•
31 Jul 10
hai, there is question of hating people comes when u are going and attending some meet or function in a room where many crowd of people are already there. it is also irrelevant that only male is there or only one girl is there. i love to talk at time , irrespective of the situation . for example you are going to marriage ceremony or a dinner , you will find alot of relatives and friends . what you will do . will u come out or will u attend? naturally you will attend the meeting or function . in your discussion i hope you are too temper to handle the situation i feel . because the gender in the crowd is normally irrelevant . i attended many meetings wherein they are almost men and only one female was there. i never use to get any headache or emprassed at any time . any how this type of critical situation always occur to each and every one and the best part of the decision is how one is handling the situation in order to avoide hate
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Is not really a hate thing it's more of a nervous thing me and other people alike get really scared when we are faced with a situation like this do to the past. In my past I have had horrible experiences of meeting people like rape and stuff still thanks to the mylot members here I have been able to get over it and to communicate with people a bit more. I don't ever know if I will ever forget the fear of that incident, but I will try to talk more with people and to come out of my comfort zone in order to be more comfortable.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Aug 10
I do fine one on one, but in a crowded room where there are conversations with a lot of people, I'm just awkward. Don't know when to chime in, when to shut up, what to say, etc. It's just uncomfortable.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
31 Jul 10
This would have to depend on the occasion for so many people to be in a room. If it is a family get together, i would simply love it. If it were some type of business meeting, then i would probably hate it. Crowds usually aren't my scene without a specific agenda.
@wickedspies (965)
• United States
31 Jul 10
I don't like being in 'crowded' rooms that are hot. i don't mind having a lot of people in one place as long as i can function without tripping over people every few seconds. I get irritated when i can't get through hallways or walkways when people are in the way it's so rude that they would just chill there. I just want to shove them out of the way 
. I generally like the company though and make sure that i make a scene ha.
I get irritated when i can't get through hallways or walkways when people are in the way it's so rude that they would just chill there. I just want to shove them out of the way . I generally like the company though and make sure that i make a scene ha.@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
31 Jul 10
I know when it's hot and it's crowded never a good combination right there. Oh yes I know what you mean when your trying to get by and they are in the way hate that lots. LoL you make a scene I would probably not make a scene and just keep to myself.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
31 Jul 10
I'd say - no no no too :D
It's too noisy, all people around you are talking with someone ...
I'm never sure who i have to pay attention for, when it's full with people i know around me. So i make it like u - stay calm and don't talk at all, if someone doesn't ask :)
Every time we have guests, friends of my boyfriend, who i don't know well, i don't talk or just say something simple. And all of his friends say - u are too silent.
But this is it. If i don't know someone very well, i can't spend a lot of time with him.
@kimkim888 (145)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
A room filled with people, LOVE IT as long as their is a GOOD Ventilation...=)It's a great chance of greeting to know new friends...People heat up when the place is hot...=(
@muckleberry29 (2)
• United States
31 Jul 10
i feel the same way i get scared i might tick someone off or embaress myself. most of all i hate trying to find a seat in a big crowd of people and i hate when people have to walk over me.
