Ideal Marrying Age

I dont think there is an ideal age either. I think the right time comes when you feel like it. When you think you have accomplished everything as a single and the only thing that's left is to have a family and raise good children. I believe the right time comes when you are ready and responsible for yourself and all you think is not just yourself but others too. it would be useless to start a family when you dont even know how to feed them. Marriage is not just about love, it is a mix of a lot of things including responsibility, stability etc.

I think I had thought at what age I wanted to get married when I was younger, but I don't remember what age I thought would be best. My husband and I got married almost a year ago, when I was 22, now I am 23. Most people I meet online says that's too young but I really don't think so. It's when you fall in love that counts, not anything else.

I don't really think there is an ideal age. In fact, people find love at different ages. I know a friend who just got married in her 30's because she'd never found anyone she loved enough to marry before then. That's just how it was. It wasn't anything she had planned, but that's how it happened and she was absolutely thrilled about it. As for me, I got married at 18. I'd known my husband since kindergarten. There were plenty of people who said we were too young, but we were ready. My mother got married at 24. My grandparents were married at 20. I think if you set an age for when you get married you're really setting yourself up for failure. What happens if you find someone you love before then and they want to get married? They might be hurt by your refusal. I know someone who thought adamantly she wasn't going to be married until she was 25 and that's what she wanted, but now she's dating someone she loves and she sees herself getting married at 21 or 22. It's great to have a plan, but be flexible enough to realize when it's ok to let the plans change. :)

I think I agree that the ideal age to get married is when you age is already 27. because it is not to old or to young to you to take care your family and children. But in my village, because I used to live in village, most people get married in a very young age, like 12, 13, or 14 years old. They get married after they finish they basic school. what do you think about that is that a good think if you married in 12-14 age?

People can marry anytime they want as long as they're certain for that person they're getting married with. If they love each and ready to take the next step of their life and fully aware of the responsibility of it then why not?? What's the use of setting a marrying age if you don't have someone to get married to when you reached the time-line? Maybe for some--setting an age is good for them to prepare and plan their life ahead, accomplish every single-hood stuff and the likes. Marriage requires preparation--financial, spiritual & emotional its a serious commitment that you can't take back when you feel like not being into it anymore.

I believe we all have our own "ideal marrying age". As for me, my ideal age before when I was younger was around 21-22 because I'd love to have a family to call my own right away as early as possible. But it didn't happen because I didn't find the man for me yet. Then I change my ideal marrying age to 25. I'm almost near that age and yet I'm still not ready to get married. Basically, I think the "ideal marrying age" is just something to guide us but it will not really happen if we haven't found the one for us and we are not yet prepared. I guess the "ideal marrying age" is when we have found the one for us and we are fully prepared for it.

Interesting. Perhaps we may look at it as an "ideal age" and as an "ideal mindset"? I came across a saying: "To give in when you are wrong is being human. Being married is to give in even when one is right." I guess in marriage, the (normal?) egoistic tendencies need to slowly disappear in a person. Perhaps the ideal age to be married is an age (above legal?) when a person is able to give in, in a kindly manner, even when one is right... What do you think?

There is no age limit for a person to get married. I think age 22 to 30 is the right time for us to get married.Even some they get married in Teenage.Off course it can happen but its too early for them and moreover the will face a lot of problem while giving birth and while taking care of child.After crossing age 22 they can take care of the child and know whats good and whats bad for their life.If we happen to marry in old age,it won't look nice and on top of that she can't care her baby in a nice way.So i think 22 to 30 is the best age for the girls to get married and settle their life.

it's true that you don't really have to set a marrying age for yourself...but some people say that there is a "too early" and "too late" age for marriage...and that the marrying age ranges from 24-27... but for me..age does not matter as long as you are ready and you are happy with your decision...who would care what's the ideal age anymore right? =)