Friendless Loser or have a bunch of friends that secretly hates you?
By ftrazona
@ftrazona (222)
Philippines
July 31, 2010 12:40am CST
Which one are you? Would you rather be a friendless loser or have a bunch of friends that secretly hates you?
Actually I took this from the movie CLIQUE . .
yah, it was the nicest quote I heard but I still questioned that coz people now a days especially the youngs are more on counting friends of how many friends do they have not minding that there are some hates them secretly. . Also, others don't want to be called loser coz of their prides.. But what is it exactly?
In my own view, id rather be a friendless loser, I can't chew my food well when I knew someone was hating me secretly and talks a lot of bad things behind my back. . That hurts. . :(
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6 responses
@fpsninja (874)
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2 Aug 10
This actually happened to me once. For a while, i thought i had a group of decent friends, but various things happened, such as me traveling for over an hour to see them, and noone showing, and soon i realised what was going on. I then became a friendless loser, and to be honest with you, it was a bit hard and annoying, but at least i didnt feel like i had to care for anyone who wouldnt do the same back or anything like that
@ftrazona (222)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Actually, I am a friendly type of a person. . but i dont think that being friendly is bad. I am actually having a very close friend. We used to say I miss you and I love you but suddenly in a networking site, she always post something that hits me.. something that is annoying. Like, she has a grudge in me then she just post it on her wall post coz she can't actually say it in front of me. I dont know whats on her mind. I didnt do something that made her mad at me.
Its like i have a lot of beautiful pictures and shes like oh youre just prety in that half body pose but for real youre not. like that. :(
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
that is just sad.
do you really have to make a choice strictly between the two?
i can't imagine what a person subjected to that situation would do.
anyway, just to answer your question, i'd choose to be friendless/alone.
there's really no difference because people who hate you are not your friends at all.
it's just about having yourself surrounded by a bunch of people who don't want you around, or choosing to be alone.
i'd prefer the company of a dog who'd truly appreciate my presence.
@akhileshnigam (494)
• India
31 Jul 10
I am fully agree with you, thanks for your comments & sharing.
@Chocoholic (85)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 10
Yeah, me too. I'd prefer be a friendless loser than having friends that secretly hates me. I've watched CLIQUE, I have it video, I like that movie.
@ilianag16 (7)
• United States
31 Jul 10
watch this movie 2 as soon as i heard this i said i rather be a friendless loser because when you have friends who secretly hate you you enter a world of fake ness you imagine something that is not it i guess its better to be alone but your still gonna get talking behind your back just differently
@premchand098 (10)
• India
4 Sep 10
Friendless loser is better than having a bunch of friends who secretly hates you. As to be frank, In my life there are so many people who secretly spread bad things about me to many people in the college. Every people made fun of me but i my best friend always supported me, later i caught that my only best friend secretly spread bad things and made other to make fun of me:(. At that time, no one can feel my pain.My only Best friend who supported me was secretly hates me and betrayed me. That was the most painful thing in my life.On that day i left my hometown and went away to my grand-parents place.Till today im a friendless loser and that makes me feel good.
