strange..!!

The feeling will be strange if you have feelings for your friend. It is not easy to demand the friendship if you are really in love with your friend. It is easy to say but hard to make actions regarding that.

Thats the way it is....First you be friends then you fall in love. then you start expecting more. When you have little you always want more...when you get more you want even more...when everything is lost you feel that little was better.

You have a point Cherie. But there are times you can not be friends forever. We can not control Love, when love comes to us we should express it. If you will notice if a friend is inlove to his friend he gave an extra care to that friend. Why? Because what he feels is no longer friendship, its love alreaday where he should express it. If they stay friends it will be more difficult for him.

love comes from friendship, but when becomes love, it's more than friendship.they love each other and then take responsibility to each other.but friends not. Lovers break up if they no more take responsibility to each other or dump each other from one side. to be friend if you dont want to go further with him/her. there will be no restrictions and no envy. but it's nature to be lover when you love each other.

I also agree with the concept of being friends first and then falling in love. When you are friends you are learning a lot more about the person and then after you learn so much about the person you began to fall for the person on the inside. When you fall in love with them, you are still good friends, but even more closer than before. Which means you get to learn even more things about them and be connected to them in a more special way. It wouldn't matter if there was so many problems out there in the world to mess up the relationship. All that matters is that you get to always be with that person.

I don't think there is no jealous b/w friends. If u have feelings for someone, he is your friend and he is seeing someone else who is beautiful than i think u would obviously feel jealous. What say? Friendship is pure and will be everlasting but is has a jealous also.

Well, you have a point there, it is true that the best way to be close to someone we love is to stay friends, nothing more, nothing less...but how about if you miss the chance of expressing your love to each other because you dont want to take the risk of moving your relationship to the higher level? won't you regret it too? Love is a risk, we can either choose to just stay to that level, with limits and boundaries of being friends, but time will come that you have to go out of your comfort zone, especially when true feelings are involve. Besides, in one way or the other, if you stay just friends, it is okay if both of you just want it, but what if he wants someone to be there for him more than just a friend? wont it hurt you to see him with another and you can't do anything because you are only his friend? just something to think of again...