be good listner than orator / myLot

India

July 31, 2010 6:16am CST

a lot of problems will be solved if you are good listner and speak less ,by speaking less you will be speaking selectively and will not annoy others ,do you agree

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sender621

@sender621 (14893)

• United States

31 Jul 10

When you speak, people will hear, but do they really listen? It is so important in life to be a good listener. Being a good speaker gets your opinion out in the world. Being a good listener gives you insight to that world.

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@antilove (191)

• Vietnam

31 Jul 10

Uhm, nice idea sender^^. We should be both a good listener and orator. But the matter is when to listen and when to speak. Haha, not easy at all, right? I myself is a listener more than an orator, therefore some people maybe think that I'm kind of haughty or something like that. So I'm trying to speak more to introduce myself to the world.

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tomitomi

@tomitomi (5429)

• Singapore

31 Jul 10

Hi akhileshnigam! Agree!

There is truth. That's why God created two ears and a mouth for everyone.

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two ears vs one mouth

tomitomi

@tomitomi (5429)

• Singapore

31 Jul 10

That's what He wants us to do too. He knows why!

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besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

• India

1 Aug 10

Very true, speak less and listen more is very true in real life.

sunilpaul

@sunilpaul (173)

• India

31 Jul 10

To listen to a person completely and then counsel positively makes a lot of difference...in short one has to listen as well orate...ability to be only one limits the "help" one could be for the other.

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