it's so weird, my sister is 20 now and she hasn't had a first love yet

Perhaps she doesn't want multiple loves, but rather one good life long love. People who jump into relationships full steam, often have many bad breakups and bounce from one person to the next over and over. Perhaps she sees that, and wants something better. Find a good life long mate, takes time, and often involves waiting for the right person. Or... maybe she simply doesn't want it. I'm 33 and have never had a girl friend in my life. Simply never needed a girl in my life, and I'm ok with it. Perhaps she's the same? Either way, you should be happy for her no matter what she's doing.

I'm sure at one point she had a crush, or maybe she's just hiding it from you guys. It is also possible that she is just concentrating on her studies at the moment. By the way 20 is still young. There are so many things ahead of her. Who knows, she'll find the man of her dreams after graduation, when she's working already.

Most probably she has different priorities in life. A niece of mine had many men wanting to be her boyfriend when she was a student. She bluntly told them she was not interested because she wanted to concentrate on her studies. She is now working with the government and posted overseas.

I don't think there's anything wrong with your sister. Actually, I think she's doing fine. She may have liked someone or maybe she likes someone but not 'love' that person. Probably she's just setting her priorities straight and right now, I think it's her studies that's on the top of her list. I think she's still young to really think about getting into a serious relationship especially since she hasn't graduated yet. Personally, I think that she's on the right track. ^_^

It's not weird. Maybe love or the right man hasn't come her way. I was 19 when i had my first love. It doesn't mean that i don't get attracted before my first love come. Only that i am looking for the right sign of what really love feels. And there,comes my prince Maybe your sister is also looking the same sign and feeling. She haven't get the excitement that she doesn't know where it is coming. The intense feeling of wanting and needing of the person to see and talk for a while Have a wonderful weekend

well i dont know maybe she is just too focus on studies and dont care for a bf while cant finish school^^ maybe is that. or maybe she likes girls and is afraid to tell you that :( also maybe she hasnt find the right guy yet. anyway dont worry im sure she will find a love sooner or later^^ she is just 20 so she still has many times for loves^^ anyway why dont you go out with her and introduce her to some guys? she might like one ^^ maybe she is just shy of talk with guys much^^

She maybe a picky one but then I think she is not yet ready to love somebody. If she has the good qualities then it does not mean that she must have a boyfriend already. It depends upon the situation and to her standard as well.

Love can wait. Every person is entitled to loved to be loved in return. Maybe, she has not found the right man yet. She is still young at 20.