guys with good looks--wud u consider a serious relationship with him??

Philippines
August 1, 2010 3:04am CST
there is a big difference between love and physical attraction. I'd rather have a serious relationship with someone I love the most and cared for. Although it is an awesome feeling to be with someone with good looks, a head-turner..its like you can't get enough looking at him. but then mental, emotional and financial stability comes first. It's not the Adonis type of looks that can build a good relationship. More often than not, they always bring trouble(no offense to you handsome guys). I would want to be with someone who are filled with ideas on how to make the world a better place. Getting a good looking guy always notes to having fun and pleasure. Physical appearance is like icing on the cake:it tastes good, but if you don't like the rest of the cake, it's worthless.
2 responses
Angelgirl16
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
1 Aug 10
Hi s2rybot, Unfortunately, physical attraction is USUALLY the first thing we notice about a person. And unfortunately, the plain Janes, and the mediocre looking guys (some of them with good hearts) are not our first choose. This is probably why so many relationship fail. We choose outer appearance instead of what is in the character of the person. I have seen couples that have been together for years and either the wife or the husband or both are not that great looking, but happy they seem to be. I would rather have a normal looking guy who treats me with respect and shows me love, than to have Mr. America that every girl wants and he thinks he is God's gift to women. The insecurity and the fear of losing him would be overwhelming. Not all good looking guys and gals are that way. You really have spend some time with a person (I don't think it would take long) to find out if there is character and integrity there, then you make your choice. We shouldn't let looks deceive us.
meeksilent
@meeksilent (514)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
HAving a bf with good looks should just be an add up to the whole package you aer looking for. I know at first you get attracted to the physical aspects but if you want a serious and long term realtionship then you should also look beyond that beautiful face and know deeper than his superficial beauty. :)