to leave or to love?

Absolutely I will leave him rather than loving the one who cheated me. Our life will not end with one love affair, where will be lot more for us.

It happens to me several times before, and I decided to leave him.

for me there's no excuse for cheating.. especially with our relationship.. so i'll leave her for good and find another women who respect honest and loyal relationship

True love is trust without expectations.

If my boyfriend really love me and if he cheated on me then firstly I will talk to him and listen what he says according to his action I need to deal with him.What ever he did to me I will forgive him but I will never forget in my entire life.So far I am not experience regarding to love and if this happens I will never let him go so easily because I loved him so much and I gave him my heart and if really want to go I can't forced him to be with me.I think think it is better to leave some who is not interested with some one who loves him with true heart.I can leave who cheated me let him go and stay happily fore ever.

i think you should leave him/her dont wait until you really love her/him or even give something you'll regret in the end... that may hurt a lot.. once you've detected cheating.. leave him/her asap..

My question is this..."Did they cheat or did they almost cheat?" These are two very different things. No man or woman can honestly say that they have never thought about being with someone else. It is human nature to mentally explore our options. It is my opinion that if my boyfriend got into a situation where they easily could have cheated on me that is a bad thing. Getting out of the situation and deciding not to go through with it is great. A true test of commitment is being given the option to cheat and not taking it. If he could but doesn't it means that he cares about me enough to say no and walk away. If he tells me about it then he shows me that he feels guilt for what could have happened and respect for telling me the truth.

I will still lover her. Its human nature to cheat people and there will be a valid reason for it.

It depend on each and every person whether they want to leave or to love .About me ............Definitely i would leave him and let him walk from me, maybe he got better than me or he didn't got love and care from me and that what i think and let him go..........the most important thing is that he don't deserve my love and my life wont be end by him ,i will continue my life with another because every boy wont be same like him ..............what you say?

I will definitely leave him as a person i don't like cheating to me.It better to leave because if he continuous cheat to me we will going lot of misunderstanding between us and my life will be useless.As a saying prevention is better than cure.we have to prevent first.

This is true or fact that most of the people face the same problem. I too have same problem.If I keep loving him he may leave me all alone one day,I if leave him I may regret later.I am giving second thought I will ask him whether he is cheating me or loving me true.I think if he is happy with other I will leave him and let him to be happy.I think what is the use of loving some body if he does not love.As a saying goes love the one who loves you but not the one whom you love.This is true and I will love those who love me.

If my boyfriend love me really and on top of this he cheated than I will leave him and go for another is better to leave because is no use of giving him love.If he really love than hope he will not cheated with me what to do no way do anything love is not like a jock and their is way to give a love and care of their girlfriend or boyfriend if he cheat than why I have go on toward him only, yeah their is some feeling toward him but he himself make me trust less and uncountable in his heart than why I have to forgive him,no I will never give to forgiveness and sorry. .

If he cheated me,I will not bother him because may be he is joking with me as he is frank to me.He might be cheeking my mind ,thinking what I will do .The love that we having is not like a small thing .If we love to some one we can't forget them in our life time ,even they hurt us also.

That depends on the situation. The first thing that I usually do is I weigh things out if it's worth staying or leaving. I think if my boyfriend had nearly cheated on me, I would forgive him if he still see me as an important person in his life.

I am in that very situation. I'm trying to stay with her. But I keep on hearing in my head. She is thinking of him. I have childeren with her and at this point I am staying mainly for them. I know that may not be the best choice but I am trying to forgive and move on. I have been married for 10 years and I don't believe that her reasons are justified even if it was only for a short get away to discover stint. It hurts. And it always will. So my answer to you is, decide if you can forgive or do you need to move on.

I experience that kind of situation so many times my heart never fails to forgive. But I can't forget what hes done. So, I lost my trust in him and he can't blame me. Eventhough I stayed in our marriage, it's because I've been selfless. I think of my children that I don't want them to experience my childhood, how it hurts to have a broken family.