what is your ideal partner?

Hi deve_annrn, Yes, I did find my ideal partner, who is no longer here. I decided to let God find him for me, and he did. I remember writing a letter to God and asking him for my mister right. I told him everything that I want this man to be, kind, considerate,generous, fun,smart, Christian, not a cheater, and some more good qualities. I guess God had to look really hard to find him, because he didn't come into my life right away, it was a few years later after I wrote the letter, but I knew that God had indeed answered my prayer when I got to know him better. I had never been in a relationship like this one. This man was attentive,kind, generous, and fun. We had the best time of our lives. Anything he bought me was top of the line. We traveled, he took me to Paris for two week for Christmas. When we got there we changed hotels three times because he didn't feel they were quality enough for me to stay in. This is the kind of man God sent to love and care for me for 12 years. I miss him but he is with God now. There are still good guys out there and sometime we need divine intervention to find them. They are worth the wait.

My ideal partner should be inlove with me.That is the most important aspect.Because that the matrimony is established on the true love.GOOD LUCK!

Ideal partner is someone i cannot live without my life..

hi deve_annrn!! i maybe one of the blessed ones. i found my ideal man.. and he is the right one for me. my husband is God fearing and very faithful, he is handsome, tall, pointed nose, fair skin, very intelligent (actually he is smarter than me), very sweet and caring, he loves me, he loves my family especially my kuya "older brother" he is a special child, very hardworking but makes time for me, no vices in any kind (maybe just eating), he even drives me anywhere i go (i am a lazy driver), he shops with me (most of the guys i know doesnt have the patience when a girl wants to shop really shop)... i love my man.. (did i tell you that we are almost 3 yrs married, and he still amazes me.. :D) but there is always a downside... many girls and women.. always asking him if he is still available... happy day to me.. happy day to all!!

My ideal partner is a good looking, smart, and jolly girl. I want her to be good looking for me to always imagine her and like her so much. I want her to be be smart for us to enjoy many interesting conversations together. and I want her to be jolly for me to be happy always when I'm with her.(=

I think most of us do this. We all have a list of standards for our ideal man/woman (at least in our mind). I would say that if someone found his/her ideal partner, then he/she must have been really blessed, just like you. You are really lucky that you found someone according to your standards. I thought I was on the same boat as you. All the qualities/talents and everything that I have wished for my ideal man to be was presented right in front of me. No vices, talented, presentable, family man, good background. How would I say no to that. He got everything that I want. But unfortunately, I learned that no matter how perfect your partner is in your eyes, there will come a time that his imperfection will show up as no one is perfect. Then you'll realize that even though he has everything that you've always wanted, there will still be something that will stand out and will somehow contradict about his being "your ideal partner". Well that's when love shows up as well. If you really love the person then you have to accept the negative stuff about him/her as well.

For me spiritual minded person responsible stick to one,calm don't know how to angry not so strict and caring.

hi deve_annrn!! i maybe one of the blessed ones. i found my ideal man.. and he is the right one for me. my husband is God fearing and very faithful, he is handsome, tall, pointed nose, fair skin, very intelligent (actually he is smarter than me), very sweet and caring, he loves me, he loves my family especially my kuya "older brother" he is a special child, very hardworking but makes time for me, no vices in any kind (maybe just eating), he even drives me anywhere i go (i am a lazy driver), he shops with me (most of the guys i know doesnt have the patience when a girl wants to shop really shop)... i love my man.. (did i tell you that we are almost 3 yrs married, and he still amazes me.. :D) but there is always a downside... many girls and women.. always asking him if he is still available... happy day to me.. happy day to all!!

there is no such things as ideal for me loving the imperfect person makes perfect because love is still love no matter what and ideal partner depends on you or lets just say it will work for both person to work it out.

My ideal man would be someone who trusts me, believes me and respects me. He doesn't have to have Brad Pitt looks but he does have to accept me as I am and not try to change me to how he thinks I should behave and he definitely should not change his personality just because they are feeling secure in a relationship. He should always be true to himself.

It's hard to tell about the criteria for the girl which I am looking for. Anyway, generally, I am kind of hard to fall in love towards someone. I am kind of picky and very careful nowadays. The criteria for the girl which I want to get fall in love with may be listed as these: #1. Know how to cook (specialty in food which I like and cook them the best I ever tasted is the one). #2. Have basic knowledge in taking care of kids. #3. Have excellent knowledge in taking care of the house works. #4. Pleasant looking (as long as she's beautiful enough in my point of view). #5. Honest and kind. Night Clubbers, having habits such as smoking, shopping excessively, high maintenance kind of girls and those who are low experience in cooking and taking care of the house works are prohibited. I just need a low key girl, and that made me fall for them.

Well my ideal guy would be someone who had a good job and good with kids . A man who could show me a good time and respect me . I also like a guy who treats me .

the ideal partner..well, he don't have to be handsome but he must be decent. he doesn't need to be rich, but he should be enterprising and have the desire to be better. we'd better fight together for our better life. we have the similar philosophy of life and social. and he loves me enough...

Well, I haven't found my ideal man, but I think that whether or not he's ideal won't matter if I really start to fall for him. Well, I think I'd be with a Christian too. I don't have anything against atheists and all, but I think it's best if the guy and I have at least our Religious views in common. Not necessarily handsome, but has good hygiene and good personality. Since I'm a handful, I need a guy who could understand my mood swings and can take care of me. I want someone who doesn't make all those quiet moments seem awkward, someone who knows how to value simple things. Someone who loves the whole of me. I don't mint occasional drinking, but not too often and too drunk. I also don't like smokers, but if the guy's smoking, I'd just keep his lips busy until he stops thinking of smoking altogether.

I have a dream guy before that I want mine that is rich and genius to the extent that he is a hot guy, handsome who can do the extreme sports. Then it change into simple that are really important to me such as can do the house hold chores, responsible, knows how to go to market, iron clothes, diligent, knows how to respect and love woman, the one I could trust, finally it was accomplished. I don't care if he is not rich but the fact that he is sensible, smart, knows how to fight and defend you, and the bonus part there is he has a good title as Civil Engineer then I considered that as my big blessing.

ideal partner....Life is not always looking for a a perfect person...Its learning to live with an imperfect one. No one is perfect. I have found an ideal person in my spouse. I know she is not perfect and i dont try to make her one...i learn to live with her imperfections. Neither am i perfect, i to have some drawbacks which she is trying to change and she has succeeded to some extent.