have you ever experience to be the third party?
By vhings_88
@vhings_88 (294)
Philippines
August 1, 2010 12:28pm CST
I used to be the "third party" of a relationship. I know that my boyfriend is still with her girl but when he courted me after many years of their relationship, i still said "yes" to him knowing that he still have her woman. That's not really cool though, after her girlfriend knew about us, she automatically made a scandal in front of me. I was so embarrassed with what happened and so I decided not to talk with the guy ever again. I know its my fault and I really felt sorry for what I have done. Good thing to know their still together until now with their child. I'm just happy for them. After all, I'm not that in love with him.
2 responses
@hushi22 (4928)
•
1 Aug 10
maybe yes but not exactly.
i didn't know the guy was into when i was as student. i knew he had a gf and they were together for long years, but then i was unaware that he broke up with her because he wanted to court me. the girl thought we were together already but we're not and we weren't really bf-gf that time. so people thought i was a third party.
@sahm35 (890)
• United States
2 Aug 10
One guy asked me to be his "in town" girlfriend because his main girlfriend lived out of town. I thought that was the funniest thing ever. How dare you think that I am that stupid. He also stated that I was to act as though I didnt know him when she was in town. LOL.
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
Hi vhings!
Never been in a third party yet but a girl friend was.
She was so madly inlove with the guy during that time and she was the one who courted him. Their relationship lasted only for nearly a year. The guy and her girlfriend has been together for over 11 years now. It is so sad to hear the story but it happened. I cannot blame you people for being the "third party" but its gonna be unfair,if you let yourself in, isn't it?
