other say try while i say wait.....

we can't forever stay in our comfort zone just to be safe. I've been through this situation, and I decided not to show any feelings toward the one that I like and same as what you are doing, I do things that will disguise how I really felt that time for the fear of rejection...in the end, I lost him without even trying to fight for what I feel. You know what is more regretful than having your heart broken?--- It is when you never found out what might have been because you did not do anything to make your feelings known. Everything we do in this life is a risk, and if you wouldn't take the chance, then you'll be forever living your life wondering, asking what if's...good luck.

I understand how you feel because I am in same situation here. Ya it is so hare for us to set aside of what er have felt for them but you know if we don't make any signs that we like them than they will never come to know about it. I have a strong feeling for this guy and its about 8years but still he don't know about it. My feeling for him is in vain. so if you wait without showing any signs than I think it will be in vain. So go for it and I will do the same.

I think you are completely right, you have to wait if you feel so because this can help you get some more ideas and a clearer mind of what you should do now and how you should be able to do it too.