how to fall in love? do you believe in love at first sight

China
August 2, 2010 4:37am CST
recently, a guy from my company condides to me that he wants to have further relationship with me. my gosh, i barely know him. it is true that he is relatively handsome and talented, but i do not know him. what if we get along with each other and found that things does not work out between us! but i never fall in love before and i do want a relationship. but i do not know if this guy is my type. what am i gonna to do?
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21 responses
• India
3 Aug 10
If you are interested to him you just give dame and if you were not than just leave it and if you like and love him,you can have a relationship with him.As you need to meet once know about him and if you like him than you can and I wish to have a good relationship.
• China
3 Aug 10
thanks!
@aevans (255)
• Malaysia
4 Aug 10
We don't need to learn how to fall in love, it's already with us. You will know when you are falling in love. I'm not really believe in love at first sight, it may be wonderful experience for some people but not me. I will choose someone who I really understand, I know she is good enough and we both can be together. All of these you need times to know it, it's something you can't get in love at first sight. Love at first sight you just attracted by the appearance of one person not what is inside. That relationship won't last forever. You can try to be a friend with the guy first, try to know more about each other. Time will show you whether is he the guy you are looking for.
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
3 Aug 10
Love is a kind of fate,when the fate comes,you will fall in love with another.The love at first sight is seldom successful in daily life.After all,love is a long term action,so it is hard to fall in love at first sight.
3 Aug 10
Why don't you try know him further, maybe start from you both have lunch together, then you can talking about your hobbies, spend holiday especially when weekend. or watching film in the cinema. I believe love at first sight, coz I can know somebody from his sight, his eye. If you can complete each other, you can continue your relationship to be more seriously, but if you feel that he is not your type, just ask him you're still enjoy to be alone. so don't wait again....
• Indonesia
3 Aug 10
Yeah, I believe in love with the first sight because me and my girl has been falling in love in the first sight, although when first time I saw her she is in relation ship status with the other, but after six month we have been meet again.. we talk about love, until now. Because first sigh is pure feeling...
@will_win (222)
• India
3 Aug 10
Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people.Usally ,we fall in love with person that we find attractive and appropriate for us,but someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us.
• United States
2 Aug 10
Yes, I do believe in love at first sight. It is great if you and the person you love have something in common, but those pheromones do all of the talking. If the two of you are not attracted to each other in some way, then that relationship is not going to work out very well. You two can do everything in your power to make it work and try to make it work, but without the physical and emotional attraction, it's going to be hard.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Hi nana813, Please, take your time in getting into a serious relationship with this guy. You like what you see on the outside, but what about his character. Why do you think he is attract to you? You said yourself that you have never been in a relationship and if you are not careful you could be heading for a heartache. Get to know him a little better, don't get too close to him right away if you are deciding to date him. You must take care of yourself and be sure he is the type of guy that you are looking for. Remember this will be your first relationship and there will be a lot to learn. Pretty on the outside doesn't always mean pretty on the inside. Ask yourself questions about what kind of man are you looking to have a trusting relationship with. Don't sell yourself short just because he is paying you some attention. It is nice when someone pay attention to you,it make you feel good but we need to take care and walk slowly.
• Canada
2 Aug 10
I believe in feelings that are strong and powerful that can overwhelma a person after they meet someone for the first time but I dont think it's "love", love when you see someone at first sifht and are "in love with them" I think that that original feelign can grow into soemthing and become somethign more meanignfuo so these people would put falling in love at first sight in a higher position becasuse they consider their relationship fate and destiny and such. It's not really a choice to fall in love soi you need to let go of that feeling. It's not a controlled thought that you can switch ona dn off with each person you meet whenever you can. Not if it's true. just go with the flow. Youc ant force anythign eitehr way, just see how it goes. And as long as you feel comfortabel in teh relationship your ina dn are happy, then you have nothing to worry about. Just enjoy because taht's what love is all about. Your just overthinking things. Good luck. :)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
For some Love at first sight is true, but most youngsters do experience this kind of experiences and it doesn't really last long but the moment you felt it, it makes you go wild and crazy. It's an unexplainable feelings.
@diogz22 (516)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Why not give it a try. Give the guy a chance to prove himself. All of us enter into a relationship not knowing if it would be the right one. But you will only knew that he would be the right one if you only you have tried.
• Thailand
2 Aug 10
I belive :D :D :D . You should speak directly with the person that you love him .
@06MLam (620)
2 Aug 10
To be honest, I myself do not believe in love at first sight. If you do so, I think you just like his or her appearance but not his personal character. I think that the love with the strongest base should be developed from friendship. Through being friends with each other, you can spend more time in observing each other so that you can conclude whether he or she is your type or not. My advice to you is to reply him saying that you would like to be friend with him now and will have further consideration later and this allows more time to you to know more about him and this can also help to stabalise the love between the two of you as you know each other better. Also, just to warn you, he might have grab the chance to date you as you did not have any love relationship before and would like to have one now. Therefore, I strongly advise you to take my suggestion so that you can prevent yourself from falling into a trap. Fianally, wish you can find your true love soon!
• United States
3 Aug 10
I do beleive love at first sight, cause it already has happened to me a couple times.? It's not easy to fall in love, for you to do so the person has to be your type because why would you fall in love with someone you don't enjoying talking to or seeing. You know when in love when you can't stop thinking about that person and you just want to spend all your time with them.?
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
yes i do believe on love at first site because ot was also happen to me and yet until now were still inlive with each other hoping that it will last till forever..
@vhings_88 (294)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
No, I don't believe on love at first sight. People get attracted easily to the beauty they saw especially for those good looking people but I can't say you'll eventuall fall in love immediately after seeing that beauty.
@juneramir (334)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Scientists study our brain activity and say that it’s quiet possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe. Some people claim that it happened to them and it was like you raise your head, meet those eyes and tell yourself “It is He/She!”. Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. In some case we won’t even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on as. Also they say that it takes about 30 seconds to fall in love or precisely speaking to estimate whether the person is worth to fall in love with. By the way psychologists claim that men fall in love first. Personally I believe most people fall in ‘Lust’ at first sight... perhaps it is possible to really fall in love with someone just by first look.. but it is far easier to be sexually excited by someone at a first sight!!!
@pirate451 (152)
• India
2 Aug 10
If you don't have any relation with any one than you can decide yourself and take time for expecting him because you have know everything detail about him and you can study about him whether he is good or not but if fall love than only you do if not than is not to expected because we need a love and care in relationship.Before you expect is better to study about him after you know everything about him than only you excepted him.......!!!!!!
• China
2 Aug 10
since you haven't tasted apples ,why don't you have a go ?
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
i don't believe in Love at first sights..teenagers do.. but actually it's just a sudden spark of physical attraction..a mere infatuation... that only takes a few seconds to be ignited..but Love..it's somewhat deeper...you cannot say that you love a person without knowing him first...and accepting his weaknesses..it's a package deal..once you learn to accept his flaws..then you probably love the person..=)