Will you still trust your love one who have cheated you?

trust is being earned. once u earned someone's trust somehow u also earn his/her respect. but once u have broken the trust, respect also torn apart. i have been cheated so many times.may it be from a friend, family member or a lover. when i knew they cheated on me, the respect never regained. i always have doubt that they wud do it again.even if they say they won't but still it has never been the same again as it was.

I have been cheated on in the past. He told me that it would never happen again, but I just couldn't forget. Afterward I found myself questioning everywhere he went. I would ask myself who he is with and what he is doing. The constant doubt and worry consumed us and we never got past it. Another perspective I can offer is that of the reformed cheater. I have cheated in the past. I told my b/f that it would never happen again and I meant it. The trouble is that they never forgot about it. I also know that once you have cheated on someone and been forgiven it is easier to do it again. From personal experience I know better than to continue a relationship with someone who has cheated on you. And if you cheat you have to end the relationship as well. Infidelity changes everything, it will never be the same, it never goes away.

Of course I wont trust a person like that. Once my trust is lost, it is considered lost forever. I know if he did something wrong, time will come that he can repeat it again.Thanks God I did not ever happened to me.

I totally agree with what you said. The doubts will always be there. My man did not literally cheat on me but he often lie to me about stuff. Like he's watching dvd but he has gone out. I have forgiven him a lot of times but my trust for him is slowly going down and down. As for cheating, I don't know but maybe yes if my love for him will prevail, but its going to be useless if it will be full of doubts.

My ex-gf has cheated me.One of my best friends told me that she has another bf except for me.When i heared that i was very angry.So i decided to separate.I can't tolerate what she said and did.When we separated,i said to her:U Never Know The Worth Of The Water Till The Well Is Dry.

I was cheated by my boyfriend several times before, and I lost my trust on him so I broke up with him. But he courted me again and did everything to regain my trust. Eventhough I have forgiven him, my trust on him is not one hundred percent. I always have doubt that he will commit the same mistakes again. But my heart says that I should forgive and trust him again and give him another chance. So I followed it.

The heart can be very careless. I know I would still have love for the person who cheated on me. In time i think I could forgive the indiscretion. It is the bond of trust that would be broken. Quick to sever, and long to heal. Trusting this person again would be difficult but for the sake of the commitment, i would hae to try.

For me yes it is happened again and again so better for you to never mind about that be patient and be caring to him as if that you back to normal and be pray to Jehovah God that he can cure your pain about it.

NO! Tha answer is definitely know. If that will happen to me but I am pretty sure it will not but if I were in that situation, I think I could never forgive my partner. I think its very difficult to do but time can only tell.

True love is trust without expectations.

No, I would not trust a person who have cheated me once. There won't be a word called trust once we loose trust from that person.SO I would rather not trust on that person.

trust...is a very important element to make a relationship strong and unbreakable..same as love..but once this trust has been broken..as much as you want to bring that trust again back to the level where it used to be..you can't help but remember what he did...and the thought that he did it once.., it isn't impossible for him to do it again..it's a protective mechanism..we became suspicious...because trust has been broken... and a relationship will be a disaster without trust...=(

Once a cheater allways a cheater. If you go back to the one whos been cheating, you will allways have that question. Plus the person who cheated will always say, well she/he let me get away with it once......I went back to my cheater x husband, x boyfriends, it never got any better. Find someone who's gonna love you exclusily..There is someone who will just do that!!!.....You don't wanna have to second guess. Good Luck!!!

That is right, if someone we love cheated on us, it hurts, but you need to forgive them and when time heals its about time to trust them again, we are only human being who made mistakes as well. But as we all know you need to gain someone's trust and learn from our mistakes.

Trust is a function of innocence,simplicity and willingness to accept unconditionally. A child trusts his/her mother,a patient trusts the doctor or the surgeon and a student trusts the teacher. In each case,trust calls for complete acceptance. If we trust someone,we hardly judge,doubt and analyze. Trust is built on the premise of strong faith. Strong faith springs from pure love that flows from your heart.Lack of purity of love gives rise to distrust of different forms and scale.A relationship built on pure love absorbs all kinds of differences;trust always remains unbroken and whole. Hence,it is important to know the purity and strength of love that binds you with someone. Thanks.

I think it all depends on the person. Me personally, I could never trust someone who cheated on me. Never again in my life would I trust them. I have a horrible time with the whole forgive and forget montra. I just get mad.

it is like a pros whome will you trust that she will not go back to his profession,it is quite difficult to trust ,so dnot trust

Nop, never. I will never trust a person who has cheated on one. I believe that once a cheater always a cheater. Maybe not all, there might still be a 2% of cheater who changes after cheating but that's just very rare. So better be safe than be cheated again. That quote has kept me safe for quite a long time.

It depends on the situation. But usually no, i cannot trust someone who once cheated on me. I cannot forgive such thing, because if it happened once, he will do that the second time, and the third, and so on. But if he was drunk, or in another situation, maybe i could forgive him, but it would take a lot of time to trust him again.

if i am cheated i will not trust him/her anymore coz giving him/her a second chance means giving him/her another reason to cheat you again..