what is the age differents you should have between kids?
By kristinad
@kristinad (185)
United States
August 2, 2010 4:16pm CST
my husband and i are thinking of having another child what do you think is a good age differentice between your first and your second child?
4 responses
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I had two of them two years apart...in some ways it was really good...but others they fought for attention etc...my son came last six years later....Instead of me just being the mom....his older sisters totally stepped in and spoiled him rotten! LOL
@dlucks101 (79)
• United States
2 Aug 10
Two years is good, for you and them I think.
Gives you time to have the baby develop and train without additional pressure on both of you. At two yrs difference, they will likely to bond well. It has worked for us and it worked for both of us as kids from similar situations.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
2 Aug 10
That is difficult to answer for one person to another as life is so expensive it is difficult to differentiate what is good for one may not be good for another. But as the above poster stated I waited two years between as I figured if I had waited five or more years I would not have started again.
Good luck with the planning of your second child.