It is good to love her..?

@siliguri (4241)
India
August 3, 2010 12:41am CST
I have completed my graduation degree last year and i'm working in a office which is little bit far from my home so i use to go in bus. In that bus many school students also go on that time when i use to go. So there is a girl which i think studying in class 7 or 8 who also come in that bus usually looks very charming and innocent and i'm attracting towards her as when i see her i feel very pleasing and try to look after her but one thing which pinches me the age matters as she might be 13 or 14 years old and i'm 23 years old so i'm thinking it is good to approach her or look after her as i'm bit older then her shall i love her or it is not good thing as she was very young..so friend please make out your point what you think about this and i will decide on your perception only..
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14 responses
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
3 Aug 10
siliguri! You are just 23 years old and getting sttracted to pretty girls at theis age is a very common thing.Since you have asked for suggestions I am giving you this--you have to concentrate on your career and your focus must be in settling down in this stable job. Prove yourself and acquire more skills first of all. Secondly ,this is not true love and it is just the quirk of this age. I t is a natural thing to get attracted to charming innocent girls .If it were your classmate or someone and you had come to sucha decision after getting to know this person it is a diffferent story.THis girl is a kid and even if she were in high school I feel you ought not to approach her. Are your parents in favour of an arranged or love match for you? And do you intend choosing your own partner? THen you will have to choose someone close to your age.3 to 5 years younger may be ok [this is my opinion]
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
3 Aug 10
read 'attracted' and 'this age'.
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
3 Aug 10
Means i will go for another one. On the day i had seen her i doesn't like any other girl and friend it is love it happen automatically so you are trying to saying i should leave her ok i will try..thanks for the reply..
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Well, the age difference is not really my issue here. My problem is her current age which i think is still too young to have a serious relationship. You may try to befriend her and try to be an older brother for a while. Wait for her to mature, at least wait 2-3 years (if you can manage) before courting her. At least by that time she'll be more emotionally mature to handle a relationship.
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
3 Aug 10
OLDER BROTHER friend is good not older brother
@srganesh (6340)
• India
3 Aug 10
She will be too young to be taken in the name of love. Just appreciate the innocent beauty and leave it there. Girls are supposed to study and earn, now a days. So, it will be a long, long waiting for you. And who knows, what is in her mind? Just consider her as one more beautiful creature in this world and pass on. If you can't, change your timing and travel in another bus.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
3 Aug 10
Very good! You will find more and more beautiful girls in this world. But if you fall in love with any girl, then you will miss all other beautiful things around. Just wait for the right girl in the name of marriage. As we, Indians have less chance to propose love to anybody without being hurt.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
3 Aug 10
friend i'm doing this thing only today i take auto for coming to the office..
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
3 Aug 10
But friend she looks awesome having cute posture..and one more thing i feel sad when i don't see her as today..
@sonalvs (159)
• India
3 Aug 10
To fall in love while travelling everyday in bus it just like bollywood movie but dear friend don't miss her because there is no age bar in love so you will have to never miss the oppertunity.
3 Aug 10
If you want to build a serious relationship, just forget her coz I think she is still young, it's better to be her older brother. but if you just want to have fun, go straight please.
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@swn_chik (266)
• India
3 Aug 10
Hi siliguri,I know their is no age or any boundaries to fall in love or love someone but I think she is too young to get into relationship.So if you can wait till she mature a bit,as its said that the fruit of patience is always sweet.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Hi Siliguri, At age 13 or 14, she is way too young for you. She is still a child even though she may not look like one. I think it is nice that you look out after her but I don't think it would be a good idea for you to even consider getting involved with her or falling in love with her. Also, in most places it would be illegal for you to have a relationship with her at that age. I think it would be best if you kept your distance.
@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
4 Aug 10
Well Siliguri, same like you one of my friend loved a 7th standard girl and he was studying degree 1st year. He first proposed to her and that girl to agree but the villain here is the girls father who did not like this marriage because the boy is very unstable and not yet settled down and major issue was the boy is not from their caste. My friend, kept on pursuing the girl secretly and they both did not meet for while but use to communicate with phones. When the girl just about to finish her engineering and this boy was running some automobile shop both eloped a married. Father filed a case but no use because his daughter was major and loves the boy. What an bashing given by the girl to her father. Now both the families have compromised and living happy life. The girl even turn my friend into a stable and well settled person.
@elvira1 (101)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
There is this couple in our place wherein the wife is 20 years older than the husband. They were both happy. I've seen them how they love each other until the wife had ailment due to old and the husband really took care of her until wife passed away. Husband did not marry again. 5 years ago, husband joined in her wife's new world. This simply shows that age is never an issue in love. You can wait for the girl until she is ready for a serious relationship. You can make friends with her at first. If you really love the girl, you can wait. Give her hints that she is special to you in a light way.
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Hello! I think you develop a crush with that beautiful girl already. It's a natural feeling and just like what they said, "crush is the gate of love". The only problem you've got is that, the girl was too young to be courted. She's only a minor, you're the one who's in the right age so you're the one who must act accordingly. It's okay to be a friend to her first, and if you're feeling develops into love eventually, then, be ready to be there for her and be patient enough because "true love can wait". Love comes in the most unexpected places, it lingers and stays so better wait for more serious signs and just act as proper as you could so you will never be in trouble okay?. Who knows? she might just be the one for you? but for now, prepare your self to wait for many days to get her heart. Good luck!
• United Arab Emirates
3 Aug 10
It is said catch them young and watch them grow. if you fall in love with her...allow her some time to know things. She is too young to be in love. But if you wait for her then things will be fine.
@rose005 (254)
• India
3 Aug 10
My dear siliguri don't miss that girl. You know there is no age for love. Love can be happen anytime with anyone but we will be happy if only we get whom we love. Common try it once, face her and express her in proper way, I sure she will not reject you...... GOOD LUCK..
• China
3 Aug 10
she is tryly so young for you.if you approach her at present,you may scare her.and if you wait her for years,are you sure till then she still have no bf?it's really a risk for you.and i think you should have a deep thought.
@gfyy1990 (25)
• China
3 Aug 10
Are you sure that you have lose your heart to her?or just appreciate?If you are sure that it's love ,i think you should not miss she,or you may be regret years later.Age is not a problem when love comes.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
4 Aug 10
I can't say it is love or i'm just appreciating her beauty.. but when i see her it gives a mesmerizing feeling