bestfriends
By tessvalencia
@tessvalencia (23)
Philippines
18 responses
@will_win (222)
• India
3 Aug 10
Being a friend is not just sharing a joke, a conversation, a cup of coffee or funny story. It means sharing an honest and true part of your self.Ya definitely i will tell my best friends that i love her very much and she is part of my life.I know friends play very important role in my life.
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@tessvalencia (23)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
I love your answer but does this mean that you are also ready for whatever consequences that action will bring?
@pirate451 (152)
• India
3 Aug 10
No,I can't tell my best friend that I am loving him how is it possible even I can't tell those who i love.I love in sense of friend but I never fall love my friends and I can't tell also.I will not fall love with my friends and I will take them as a my friend only.Please escape who ever fall love with your best friend is not good.While you all being good friend don't break up your relationship of your friends.I say never.....and...ever..!
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@tessvalencia (23)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
Exactly! But the problem is sometimes we just can't teach our hearts not to love a person. Even if we resist this thing to happen, it's a reality that sometimes people fall in love with their bestfriends even if they don't want to.
@cher8558 (425)
• Canada
8 Aug 10
Hi friends,
I have a best friend that I have had for 22 years. We had our kids together. We shared her divorce together. She was my Maid of Honor. I loved her always. There is nothing we don't share with each other. Of course the way I love her is not the way I love my husband. I love her as almost a sister.
I love her now more than ever. She is in stage 4 of Cancer. I don't know how I'm going to live without her.
So can I tell my best friend I love her? You're damn right and I do tell her every day.
I love you my Liz.
Cheryl
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
11 Aug 10
I think it is better to have a opposite gender as our best friend. 'cause in same gender there is lots of misunderstandings. You feel jealous when your friend dress up or it can be in any thing. Where as its not possible to be jealous if you are in different gender.
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
11 Aug 10
I think it is better to have a opposite gerder as our best friend. 'cause in same gender there is lots of misunderstandings. You feel jealous when your friend dress up or it can be in any thing. Where as its not possible to be jealous if you are in different gender.
@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
7 Aug 10
I might say something like, "I love our friendship." That way the friend know where I stand in our relationship.
@mysticmaggie (2498)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I tell him every day of his life, because he was first my best friend, then my fiance, and finally my husband.
I've never found it difficult to express the deep and abiding love I have for him, nor has he ever hesitated to tell me the same.
@wzmlove007 (7)
• China
4 Aug 10
why did you ask such a question?
where are you from?
some place closed mind?
i will tell her if i love her.
last time i tell a girl who i loved that i love you,but she refuesed ,but this did not indicate that i am wrong.It indicates she do not love me,if i do not tell her that ,i will never know she did not love me.
@swn_chik (266)
• India
3 Aug 10
No,I can't tell my best friend that I love him as I don't want to risk my friendship.I value my friendship with him than my love for him but if he has the same feeling for me ,then I won't back off.....haha
@chiplex916 (140)
• India
3 Aug 10
I share every thing with my best friend. And she also does the same.She is the person whom I can trust .
@westbird321 (232)
• India
3 Aug 10
I never fall with my friends so i don't have experience of this but in case if its ever happened with me then i think i cant say him that i love him. After that i might loose his friendship.
@kimkim888 (145)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
No , because , our friendship is important than any thing else.
@smooch137 (2)
• South Korea
3 Aug 10
It's the question of taking risks. Are you willing to take risk? There are three possible things that can happen. First is that the feeling is mutual, so you live happily ever after. Second, he/she doesn't feel the same way and that by telling him or her, both of you become uncomfortable with each other, thus putting strain on the friendship. Or third, he/she may not feel the same way, yet is matured enough to recognize your feelings and cherish your friendship that he/she decides to keep you as a friend.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I did it once with my best friend. I was in college then. I took the chance and i paid for it. We were never the same with each other again after. But i never regretted it. I felt that i dislodge a very heavy weight i was carrying. I realized that it's better that way than carry the pain and suffer in silence. I left, had a job, gotten in a relationship. When i came back, we had a very long conversation about what happened. It turned out, that she was waiting for my next move. I thought her distance was resentment but on the contrary she doesn't know what to do either. but life has to move on. Everything has changed, i have a girlfriend that was waiting for me and i have to choose. That time i chose my girlfriend. But at least we settled our differences. This time no more what if's.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
3 Aug 10
Yes it depends on how she would also feel towards me. I want to know if she also loves me also and then i would go and propose her. But if she just wants to be friends also i am cool with that.
I have seen many such relationships or rather friendships breaking up just because the boy loves the girl or vice versa. It's just that they care too much for the other person and they think that they know them too well.
It depends on one's feeling towards other. If one likes but not loves each other then that could be a very successful and long relationship. But one should be clear about his/her intentions.
@myswirlyagelessmind (379)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
romantically? i don't think so. i'm a very guarded person...then again on a day when i'm feeling adventurous and spontaneous, why not? but...yes, there's a but...he has to tell me he loves me first, that's my term. seriously, i don't think it will ever come to that between us. i love his as a friend, it will never become romantic.