How to deal with demanding parents, girlfriend and friends?
By Albert1989
@Albert1989 (372)
Malaysia
August 3, 2010 3:37am CST
I mean...i have to think what he will say, what she will say...what everyone will say..parents say i give more importance to friends, friends say i give more importance to girlfriends, girlfriends say my friends are too important to me..
What about me??
I 'm always so scared of hurting them, how do i do what i want? The biggest thing is that i don't know how to begin..how to put my point..i m too afraid to lose them.. am i too good??? or too insecure??
2 responses
@JamieHenriques (200)
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3 Aug 10
albert judgin from your past few questions i can sense that you have parent issues and you are taking it all out on others. Understanding that you are 20 and anxious about getting married seems a bit to quick you need to slow down. There needs to be fair balance when you are treating friends and girl friends. MAny people who go into relationships fall out with their friends and you fallen into that trap. You are insecure to a degree because you may not know this and I dont know you in person but you seem to spend more time with your girlfriend because you are scared of losing her. The best solution is to incorporate and mix you friends with your girlfriend. This way you will be spending time with both.
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 10
But the problem is, my girlfriend don't want to mix up with my friends, and she don't want me spend so much time on them.
On the other hand, she want me to spend time on HER FRIENDS..is this unfair to me?? yes , it is..!!
