He Said He Loves Me

Than I really nice for you because love can be sweeter in second time. Give him the chance if you love him too.

Wow! I am excited! Give him a chance. I hope you like him still though. Love is sweeter the second time around.

What was the reason for the break up in the first place? It seems he is being a little desperate too, so take care. No fault in giving him a second chance but if he has cheated on you before, you need to watch out. That is why i wanted to know why you both broke up in the first place. It could be, that you both didn't think much about each other that time and now he missed you so wants you more.Take care, all the best!

Hi JOIEMARVIC, Reconnecting with a past lover is always nice. Then, after we get the stars out of our eyes we must remember why we broke up in the first place. Was it because someone cheated (big problem) or was it just an insignificant lover's quarrel? You say that you have not had any contact with this ex-boyfriend in five years, if I am reading your discussion correctly, which is a very long time. So much time has past and a lot could and probably has happened in both your lives. I would think that you would want to know what has been going on in his life and if there is anyone in his heart other than you, right now. Did you move away from the area and he didn't know where to find you? Why did it take him five years to realize that he made a huge mistake in letting you go? If there was no Facebook, would he have moved heaven and earth to find you? Or it is because of Facebook he found you? I hope for your sake that he is as genuine as the Hope Diamond. If he is telling you no lies, then you are a very lucky lady. Some people are lucky enough to get a second chance. I wish you all the best.

It all depends on you. Ask yourself honestly, do you still love him like you used to 5 years ago? Do you believe that he really loves you? Of course, I sincerely wish that both of you can live happily ever after.

That's great,i know that you don't want to hear his name also because he made you hurt a lot and may be you want to spit on his face.But i think that he deserve one more chance from you so that he can prove himself that he truly mean that for you.

Nothing is wrong with that if that's what he really feels. Challenge him. Tell him to say that in your face. If both of you are still single, why not pursue what you both feel. Why don't you have a date together and fix things out. Who knows you might be able to patch things up and fix the broken pieces.

hello joimarvic, I am not sure how old you are and if you were in your teens when you broke up I would say go for it. You had five years of seperation and you both grew from other relationships and he seems to know what he wants and see that in you. Yes, I would say take you time because if he really loves he let you see how he improved and show other ways that he really cares about you and that this is for real for him. I am really ahppy for you and seem like you still have feelings for this guy which is very cool...usually most people relealise that person was not meant for them after they have been with someone else. Good luck and keep us posted. Thanks Unique16

Well i think, maybe he rebounding from another disaster relationship.I think maybe u can give him time and restart back the courtship if u r still interested in him.I think suddenly want to be together back and said i love u and let get marry is too soon too fast to be true.Better be sure then later he regret and breakoff like previously.So i guess take it slow and enjoy the courtship,start with friendship first and test his patient.

Hello JOIEMARVIC :) I'm not a person who gives second chance to my ex boyfriends, but your story sounds realistic. I mean 5 years are good time to understand what you want in this life. And it's good time to make flashback of your past. :) If you don't have an other relationship now and you were happy with this guy, don't miss that chance ;) Cheers

nobody knows us better except us...past is past. you accepted him back. what matters most is how he make you feel love by now? you can feel it. as a woman, we always need an assurance from our man how much we are loved...if you feel the assurance for now, his sincerity about asking him to marry. maybe he loves you enough. now maybe the problem is in your side because you rely on the past, you have to ask yourself this a million times, DO I LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO MARRY HIM? then the floors is yours to determine yourself.

if what's about to happen won't hurt anyone then go for it. they all say that life's a gamble. try to be with him first, a lot may change in 5 years and that ex of yours is not the person you knew before. good luck to you!

if he ask you to marry him well that just a sign that he really loves you why?no guy in this world will live with a woman that he doesnt love maybe perhaps for some situation but asking for marriage simply signifies truthfullness and love

Such a exciting thing~I think you can give him a second chance,test if he‘s serious.I hope that all share be well~~

Marry?? well in fact, we can't gives you any clue, it is only you who can feel the real feeling from him is it real or fake, just be sure before you make any crucial decision, married things is a serious things in life I think you need more time to think about it .... Hopes you'll find the answer

I have no idea about why he said this romantic sentence. And you must make the final decision yourself. I have only one advice to you, my friend! If you tend to have a try with him, I personally think you should make a clear investigation on what happened to him, especially his emotional world in the five years.

Woah! It's too fast, but I am happy for you. It really feels good to know that people are happy because of love. If I will to ask you, I will give the guy the chance he if really deserves it. I think destiny is finding it's way for you to be back again and I hope this time it will be for real. But in marriage I think it's still early why not enjoy being together first and if the love will continue to grow then that's the time that you have to consider being married. Good luck and continue to share love.

Its is very nice to hear that some body still want you back.Your past boy friend realized that how good you are.You already know him very well because you had 5 years relationship before.I think he really want you back, so love the one who loves you not the one whom do you love.

If he is asking to marry him then u have to think whether u want or not. Whether u will be happy with him or not. Whether u love him or not. But since he have asked for marriage then i think he is being honest to you and regretting what ever happened in past b/w u both.

Sometimes Love is Selfish for both two persons who love each other,sometimes destiny take us to the path were we will realized that we need to separates for some circumstances but on your part sometimes Saying goodbye to the persons you love most in the past will help you to realized you how much she/he loves you in the future. That's why there are terms that called second chance :)