I "day-dreamed" of having a Wife

Maybe subconsciously, you really want to settle down. I am a year older than you and sometimes I also caught myself imagining things about "what - if" for a family. I really don't have any plans yet on settling down since I haven't found the right one yet. Just let it go, don't put too much pressure on you. The right one will just come along. For now, focus on having a job because you really don't want to meet "the one" unprepared right?

Your day dreams could mean different things. It could be that you have a subconscious wish to settle down but feel afraid, hence the cheating wife. It is interesting what goes through our minds. I think that meeting the right person is not something we can make happen; it occurs when the time is right and that is when you know if you’re ready for that kind of commitment. Your day dream could have just been a fantasy wondering what it may be like to be married and that is all. I would advise you to make the most of your life regardless of whether you ever marry or not, what will be, will be...

You are the one who can answer your own question Let.Are you ready for it, are you longing for someone to take care of you? do you think you are happy now with someone special than being single? is there is someone you like to be your girlfriend? If there is none maybe that is just a sign, maybe this is the right time to make a move and make that illusion a reality. Everyone is doing it, nothing is wrong with your daydream.

Ey, dear. :-) I do a litle checking in your profile before posting this. I can say you are old enough to be dreaming and wanting to have a wife. But, I'm not sure if you are RIPE enough to settle down. I'm not either a psychologist to interpret what is in your subconscious. I can only express my two cents worth here. It came to me as a surprise that you have no one who inspires you yet.How come?:-)Well, you are just human, my dear, yearning to be loved and give love.Because, let's face it, eventhough there's a great chance that we'd get ourselves hurt,nothing can be compared to the happiness of having someone to love and loves us back even if it doesn't last long. Sadly,there's no guidebooks that can help us keep things the way we always anted them to be. Because there's no assurance to everything, dear... Don't be daunted by what you are experiencing. Give yourself a chance to be happy and live not in fear.Your fate is different from your mum's or siblings'. LA LA LA LOVE.

Hi LetranKnight25! I also do that though I feel that I am still young for getting married. I just day dream having big tummy cause I am already pregnant....I imagine my future husband taking good care of me...I don't know. Maybe I'm just jealous of those who are happy with their love life...hehehehe

I hope you don't mind me asking but it was the first thing that crossed my mind after I read your discussion. Do you have a girlfriend at the moment? If not, then you might want to try to have one then decide from there. Relationships sometimes tend to be headaches, too. It maybe similar to the one you're having right now or not, but there will be some along the way. Always remember, it is easy to get married but it's really difficult to get out when you feel tired of it. I say this because I saw your profile and found out that you are from the Philippines. We don't have divorces here. Annulment cost as high as Php200,000.00 - Php300,000.00. Not to mention the agony it will give your children if you end up having any. I really hope that you are not just feeling insecure about your age. Or that you're just being bothered about being jobless and alone. I was 30 when I got married and still married for the past 16 years. A wife will not fill the void inside you unless you find somebody who you truly love. Try to get inspiration around you - from family, friends, acquaintances who find joy in living because of their goals. Lastly, when you do find a girlfriend, you can decide from there whether you really want to start a family or not yet. Good luck to you. May you find enough peace and solace to get rid of your headaches and finally decide what you want to do with your life.

It is alright for you to 'day dream' of having a wife at a time when you are without a job, and having the day dream will probably help you get over your day quicker. But if you happen to hold a job later, then it will be a lot more helpful if you can get yourself a wife instead of 'day dreaming ' of having a wife, in this way, you may have the chance to keep your job a little bit longer without the need to choose between making a living or continue to day dream which is unhealthy to your career advancement unless you got yourself a night time job ....hahaha...

Well you are still in the NORMAL LEVEL, it will be not if you think you have a wife and you're a woman. Try day-dreaming about that wife of yours having an affair. I bet you'll stop day-dreaming. LAZY!

Hello to you about your day dreamed to have wife,it is normal to feel that you are longing for that in your life but you need first to find stable job for you able to support and sustain your dreamed to have a family and pray it to the Lord when is the right time and who is the right person to you because it is a lifetime commitment and a covenant to God when you get married.

Haha... I hope you're okay now... Anyway, how young are you? ... Getting married is really life changing and it entails lots of responsibilities so you better be ready before marrying.

That was funny, you dreamed of her then you want to cheat. You're not the perfect guy do you?

Maybe you wanted to settle down and have a family of your own, but since you don't have a job yet I think it's not yet time because entering to a marriage life is very difficult not only it requires you to be emotionally ready but financially capable as well. Don't worry you're not the only one who had a day dream like.

i dream also that way, I'm hoping that someday it will came true... maybe 2 years from now..heheh =)