Don't you hate it when people are wrong and then they say "I was testing you"

@apresto (127)
Bulgaria
August 3, 2010 11:03am CST
Well, do you?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Aug 10
apresto I am not sure what you are saying, you mean that they assume something about you thats not right and then cop out by saying I was just testing you?another sentence sort of explaining what you really meant with maybe an example would unconfuse me. Or did someone accuse you wrongly of something then just say I was testing y ou? I hate that yes, also sort of hate if when I have to guess when one more sentence might have made me understand just what you are saying. I mean if you can take time to write one sentence then another showing an example of what you are asking would be really helpful. hugs.
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@apresto (127)
• Bulgaria
4 Aug 10
Hi there, Hatley. I am talking about situations when someone makes a terrible mistake about something really easy and obvious, such as the color of lemons. Sometimes they continue talking if the other was not listening, but when the person they are talking to corrects them, they say, hey I was just testing if you are listening or you were in passive attention. Do you understand me now? Tell me to be more descriptivi if not. It can sometimes get funny and become a joke because it is so obvious both sides of conversation know when the other is pretending.
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
26 Aug 10
It's not wrong. It's stupid. Saying that is the only way to escape from being exposed as an empty-headed people.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
3 Aug 10
well people can say anything they want but YOU know the truth, don't you? it doesn't matter they admit their mistakes or not anyone who denies their faults or mistakes, is actually losing not winning I've had people laughed at me when I was concerned about work so when they were serious, I laughed at them guess what, they were angry about it LOL so since then I really don't give a damn what people think or whether they admit or not there are too many changes in my life I don't have time for immature people I will leave them or ignore them completely I've always done this and I never regret it
@dogito (89)
• Bulgaria
4 Aug 10
I do not know what is unpleasant - to say "I was testing you" or did not recognize her. Because by saying "I was testing you" at least kind of recognition. And I do I hate man not to recognize the error or falsehood.
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• India
3 Aug 10
Ummm, well I agree that it's pretty annoying. But I pity such people for being so innocent. And I prefer behaving like this to avoid frustration and temper and I would suggest anybody to behave in this way. What do you think about this? Isn't it more convenient?