Why people arounding me all so negative

@Ruby722 (796)
China
August 3, 2010 9:35pm CST
Yes,They truly effect me deeply. All the time they being told me,'I dont want to survive in this world anymore,life is hard,work is hard,family is har,everything is so diffcult''all these messages get in my head and they lives in my head. I try to comfort them.but it turns out i am the one who become sicks.We awalys say try to look the bright side.everything gonna be ok.Do you belive that? do you really think everything will going trough eventually? I am really admire psychological .How could them handle this ???
7 responses
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
there are times that i'm down and i can't help but feel pessimistic... and it pulls me down even more... people would always see look at the bright side of things..it will help you out... and i did but it isn't easy..but it really helps to do so..because the more you worry about the problem..the bigger the problem becomes..so it pays to be optimistic...=)
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• China
4 Aug 10
Yeah,if you firstly fail in yourself,then everthing will fail then.Attitude is a key to almost everything.Just remember: No pains,no gains.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Aug 10
hi Ruby well tell these people that those who always see the negative side of everything and are always pessimistic also have the greatest chance of having a heart attack. It seems studies have proved that being always gloomy has a bad effect on your heart. Maybe this will persuade them to look on the bright side of things instead. smile, joke, laugh as its good for your heart.We really should be optimistic as being negative will make us sick, and who needs to be sick? being cheerful and expecting good cause the law of attraction to actually bring good things to you. try it as its been proven.
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
4 Aug 10
You bet right I know a guy,whom always being joking with us.and he like smiles a lots of course he is very optimistic and very lucky. so let's make a conclusion.optimistic bring good luck, isnt it?
• Romania
4 Aug 10
Many people are negative....but i like to be opyimistic...think i am gonna be ok....
@kristeena (358)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
There are some people that see life as hard as it is, but there are a lot of them that value life and always see life beautifully. I know you want to help them as best as you can. If only we can give these people the things they want in life to keep them moving on. Just keep on trying to console and give them hope.
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
You felt that way because you seriously absorb their negativity. You don't have to please everyone just to feel your worth as a person. If they aren't happy with what you are doing, don't deal and dwell with them. Give them time to think what they are losing. And spare some time also to think what you've done lately with your life. Evaluate yourself. Most of all, pray. Seek guidance from him.
@triselle (55)
• Canada
4 Aug 10
I know people who's gone through depression and it is hard having to hear every negative thing come out of their mouth. As for yourself, you need to be optimistic for them. You need to be the one who'll tell them that "everything's gonna be okay". You can't let yourself get affected by that person's problem, you need to the one who'll make it for them. Ever heard of the quote "Laughter is the best medicine"? I always try to make people smile and laugh, It always works for me. Oh, and what if you fail? So what, at least you tried. :)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I have always been the type to believe that everything is negative for the simple reason that when I get happy endings it is more enjoyable. Perhaps because I have so many turmoils and disappointment in life is why I always feel this way. Always worried what the future will bring and always worried what the consequences will be.