for the youngsters

I am getting married in some two years as we are getting engaged this year and we have already many plans for our babies and their life also, we think about the studies, the future, and the values we will inculcate in them. So I would want my children to respect me and my husband just like I respect my parents.

i can see myself as a parent already even without the kids..hahah...i've been raised with my father away all the time and my mother is the only one who had been taking care of me and my 6 younger siblings.. i admire my mother a lot..it is hard to raise children with this number when you're alone.. so i plan to imitate my mother's strict style but plan to omit her spanking sessions... it is painful and i don't want my children to feel hatred towards me even if it's just temporary..=_=

this is one of the difficult thing for the youngers to idolize themselves as good and best parents for their kid. now a days the couples started living alone and not in a joint family . creating their own dreams and wishes and turning their lifes from each and every corner for their enjoyment . and simultaneously they are also spoiling their own kid and put them in nasty manners and worldy sorrows. kids always think that what ever our parents do is the right thing to do and they try to immitate you as a model . rather they will not apply their own brain to understand the situation . ultimately you will find one day that your kid is approaching and going in the wrong path of the life. at that moment you re-act to passify him and put him in right path which is a very difficult thing to do . as you said, the youngsters has to plan their future responsibilities and first of all they should identify the aspects of a good parent and they have to behave like that only before childrens so that the kids also will follow the same way and become a good citizen