define sexy ...
By deve_annrn
@deve_annrn (1856)
Philippines
August 4, 2010 12:32am CST
hi guys... i am a typical girl who is curious how different people's view with regards to sexiness... how would you conclude that a certain girl is sexy or not.. does she have to wear less clothes and show more skin to be sexy? or does she have to have long legs, big boobs.., big butt., tiny waistline to be sexy... or are there some guys out there who defines sexiness in the not so common way and prefers sexiness to be simple...=) type on...
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16 responses
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I'm less concerned about looks as with character and morals. If she lies, if she's unfaithful, if she's a jerk, or if she screams, all of those make what she looks like unimportant.
There are a few things that can turn me off visually.
Piercings or tattoos. No thank you. Primitive isolated tribes shove bones through their skin. A metal bugger is no more attractive than that. Nor is cutting your self with rocks, less attractive than a nasty tattoo.
Neon hair colors. You can color your hair, but color it naturally. If you want some red-ish highlights, that's fine. But no neon green, or neon purple, or some other completely un-natural hair color. I want to marry a women.... as in a women, not a freak Anime wannabe.
People who ware nothing, or a little as possible. Sorry, but if every guy knows every aspect of your body, then why do I want it? Go with them instead. I'll take a modest girl.
As for general body type... just take care of yourself. You do not need to be skinny, but nor do you need to be overly fat. I don't want to marry a stick, or a blob. Just take care for yourself, and that's good enough for me.
But like I said, you might be the most attractive girl in the entire world to me... but if you don't have character, if you are not a good person, your looks mean nothing. The inner beauty is the most important.
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
oooohhhh... sooo right..definitely right... the inner beauty outweighs the physical attributes...
@gedeon990708 (28)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
all you stated could contribute to a sexiness of a person but in my own view of point sexy for me is: Flawless but simple, semi chubby but not that big, and of course nice perfume.hehe
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
hmmm...you got me on this one..why do you prefer semi chubby??? i'm curious..it's rare to find guys who find chubby as sexy..=)
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
9 Aug 10
well different strokes for different folks. i know guys who are boob-guys. i also guys who are long-leg kind of guys. there is no one thing that appeals to everyone, unless it's venus we are talking about.
to me, it's important to be confident about oneself. one can never look sexy in a short skirt if she keeps tugging at it. or a woman who keeps hunching because she feels awkward when people look at her boobs. be comfortable with yourself and you can be as sexy as anyone else. cheers
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
Love the way you define sexy...cheers!!! and because of this..i feel sexy too...hahah...just kidding..yes.., i definitely agree that sexiness depends on how we carry ourselves... it does not necessarily depends on how big are the boobs or butts or how much skin has been exposed but the way we set our minds..if we feel we are sexy and show it to people..the they'll definitely sexy that we are indeed a sexy human being...hahaha
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Aug 10
hi d eve I am an elderly woman but was remembering what my husband when he was my fiance told me, he thought my shyness was sexy, my being comfortable in my own body, and my almost blonde caramel hair, and my compassion with others, I was a nurses aide. He did not go for too small boobs and I was worried as I was a bit busty, and a bit hippy but not fat.He always told me that my poise about myself was what was sexy to him. hope this helps.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
hi hatley... that's so nice of you to share what your husband's idea of sexiness.. and that's the same way my boyfriend opinion about me too... I always have been busty too despite if i tried my best to lose some weight.. haha... i've been obsessed with losing wt for the longest time and i'm not even overweight... i have this notion that slim girls are sexier...just like the models..but my boyfriend will scold me if i eat less..so i eventually gave up..hahaha..thanks for the comment..=)
@mercedlegurpa (955)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
For me a sexy girl is intelligent, physically slim and I don't like girls with big boobs. I think it's hard for them to carry the weight if those boobs are big though a regular size is ok. I like simple dress girls but sexy to look at.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
showing flesh is not all sexy. it is only a part. if a girl shows flesh and does not know how to carry it, then she cannot be sexy.
but there are girls who are sexy without showing anything. confidence, intellect, character, and attitude can be factors in the definition of a sexy woman. it is not all physical.
@ldyshkspr (77)
• United States
5 Aug 10
i think intelligence is sexy. makes me mad when people dont know simple stuff
@manilatop10 (371)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Not copying a trend that is prevalent or thought to be sexy ... honoring their individual style is simply gorgeous and will result in unexpected sexiness without the shock value of LG.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
4 Aug 10
In my opinion, sexiness is an attitude, but that person has to have some physical beauty. I personally like women or girls who are like Beyonce, I mean they have to have curves and some flesh, not be to skinny, but this is just a personal opinion.
@juliusports (274)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Hi I guess sexiness lies on the eye of the beholder, because at times a seem to appreciate some extra chubby girls who looks flow less and fresh and has that seductive looks in them though I admit that there are girls who's naturally sexy. So i guess it would really depend on the beholder.
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
4 Aug 10
I'm not a guy and don't find girls sexy in the least but if you apply the theory to men then I would say that beauty and sexiness is in the eye of the beholder and that no two people are the same (except for twins lol). Most people would have a different definition of what would be sexy but I think the best way to describe it would be to say that if you feel beautiful and sexy than that is the image you would project to others and therefore is maybe what would attract others.
@jamuls (530)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
physically, i go for big butts, i'm not a boob guy and she's got to have uhm... nice underarms... but the most important factor for me is that she has to be witty, laughs a lot, has an appetite like mine, and has to have smooth, clean and very sexy underarms. lol
sexy for me is in the brains. i don't go for blank looks when i talk to her. i'm a funny man and i need to have a funny girl. (which i do already)
sooo... there. :)