So many lonely mylotters lately........

Very well said..

Hello sky, Nah, am not being critic to these people but i wonder if the person is really relieved from the responses of the other users based on their experience. i remember, i did asked for advice at the deep of my depression and yet some how i became defensive about the responses, when i should have been taking it into consideration but i guess they know something. but am happy about it. thanks to them..to you

Skycuccess, You couldn't have said it any better. Way to go. :)

Megabiz.. perhaps I've forgotten to say welcome to myLot to you.. I'm sure you will love this site as much as I do.. Letran, I know what you mean.. so if like that, maybe you can choose to pour out your thoughts and feelings intermittently with myLot and Facebook, so there will be no double things there. Or like you said, you can just choose to share it with your family only. Take care, aite..

well, i guess i should. trouble for me now is that some mylotters already know me in facebook so i can be afraid sometimes in sharing my problems when i should be sharing it with my family. but thanx.

I am right there with you on following sky's stance on this. Sky really made a valuable point. I to as well as you zed, try to take everything sincere first an have found some lonely mylotters on here as well you feel they just need someone's arms to reach out and give them hug. After all, aren't we suppose to be one big happy family that is here for each other like brothers and sister in Christ? I love you all mylotters. ~ HUGS TO ALL OF YOU~ :)

HAH! i think he was just plain trap in his surroundings that needs getting out to refresh a bit. of course, he was smart enough not to have a relationship until such time that he is really ready or end up cheating like the others, even those in the family. it's safe to say, avoid it as early as possible

So let's just say he was on a daydream therapy then to relieve himself of the stress he feels right now.

I believe she's the best mylotter i have encounter in my life since she can talk almost about everything and advise almost everything that she can tell. i believe it's right of every mylotter to vent out, and that's normal.

THREE CHEERS from ME to that courage's lady, Hatley. CLAP! CLAP! CLAP! Would love to talk to this mylotter lady sometime. I have struggled a lot in my life with my hearing problems and have been put down a lot by it. She sounds like a trooper. We should all learn a lesson from her. DON'T LET PAIN OVERTAKE YOUR LIFE IN STOPPING YOU FROM DOING WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO. LET THE PAIN MAKE YOU STRONGER. Look at Jesus who was whipped many times till dripping in blood with a crown of thorns on his head and then nailed to the cross. He overcame the pain and kept on going till he took his last dying breath. He teaches us to be strong like him. To overcome the pain and keep on going till we to take our last dying breath. For this lady to have pain still keep taking care of special needs kids every day, show us love, courage and strength. From what little you say of her Hatley, I believe she will be like Jesus. No matter how much pain she is in, she will keep on going strong, showing her love for those kids till the day she takes her last breath. Those kids and her husband have to be very proud of her. I don't know her, but I am proud of her. :)

who is this person? I hope it's not me because i chose not to leave because it's not necessary yet. i ams till available and can be online when ever i am ready to be active. sadness it's just hard to let go of such emotion most specially if something that is a real impact to you well, thanx for the advice, i think i should practice since i noticed some thing that only grown people see in their face

NOT YOU my dear bro,but almost same like you speaking of loneliness (being a loner) I never thought you also want to leave mylot,all i know is that you get to just want to have some space (not leaving) The one mylotter i am saying really did leave us (i know you knew him too) You will get to know the real feeling of happiness when you start finding the way to overcome your loneliness. Let sadness drown with lonely days and welcome each day with a smile

Jaiho2009, I really love what you said here at the end about letting sadness drown with lonely days and welcome each day with a smile. I need to write that down and post it to my frig. That really helps me in my lonely days. I have a guy friend that really loves me and I him. But he is so busy with his counseling and loves to talk to look at women on the internet as well as write to some. He gets into these dating websites. When I met him in 2005, he started looking more at women in 2006 and we stopped dating and became BEST friends. Now he thinks I could be the one. He is still in the dating sites. After two or three times of exchanging letters with someone, he ends up telling them he is counselor and it more or less ends up once they find that out, they start spilling out there problems leaving him no longer in a getting to know someone but a counseling session leaving him frustrated. I am with a man I love and who loves me dearly in a way he is thinking of quitting the dating sites due to being tired of everyone wanting him to fix there problems free of charge. He comes over due to plumbing problems at home and to costly to get fixed. He eats breakfast while on the dating sites, then showers for his clients and returns for dinner and back on the dating sites. But he is only on them for a total of 1 1/2 hours a day then the rest is Home Based Business sites. He isn't much for going out as I would like us to. Even though he is around me a lot, I feel lonely. I don't have any friends and it is hard to make. When I try to make friends, they either, use me to get to my other friends and dumb me. OR...Try to get to me to get to my guy friend. OR... They like my son so much that due to them not having any kids, they try to push me away from being a mother and take my place when my son is with me. So, as you can tell, I have been :( sad, lonely and depressed leaving me unable to smile each day. That is why I love how you phrase Letting sadness drown.... You put that in an amazing way. :)