would it change your feelings if your girl say NO to ***?

Oh... it is so cute, I think that those women who keeps them virginity until the wedding are respectful, If my girlfriend would have told me that she would like to wait with it until wedding I would not mind, in fact I think it is cute! And I will be able to plan my final *** plan! buahahaha!!!

Personally,I perceive it rather strange for a girl to discuss this though,I do want to share with you a girl's opinion about this topic. We girls like to be respected. Love is amazing and is above physical entertainment from my point of view.As long as you love her and are willing to walk with her until the end,why would boys get upset about it? I mean she will be yours sooner or later,and you will have plenty of time to love her,will you not? In addition,girls view your reaction as a sign about whether you love her truly or simply want to involve her into a short happy trip.The reserved type likes long and lasting relationships more than the playful type. Dude,physical satisfaction is not the most important reason why you love her,or is it?

Women can save themselves until marriage. There are still some women who do, but sadly those women have relationship issues. My niece is saving herself for marriage, and she has already had several broken relationships because she told the man "no". I am not saying that she has to put out, but I am saying that she should really screen these guys before getting into serious relationships with them. Some men respect women who don't put out, and who save themselves for marriage, but then again, some guys just can't wait that long.

If I met a woman like her I would definitely respect her decision and that wont change my views on her. In fact that is something I consider a plus if a womans view is like that.

hi deve! i saved it until our honeymoon. those were my believes and my husband honored it. i had 6 yr relationship before my husband and my ex-bf honored it too. it really matter how much can i give and thankfully it was enough for them to honor my wishes and not to force me to do that thing. the reason why i dont want to give in because my sister got pregnant before marriage and i saw how my parents react and how much they were hurt. i even saw my dad cry. i dont want to do it to my parents anymore. and i believed that *** before marriage is wrong. i may offend someone here but it is what i believe in and i am happy i stick on it.

Its fine me coz if you love her you' definitely respect and understand her stand on this matter

If you're really inlove with the girl, all respects and understanding takes precedence over anything else. You'll do anything and even all "crazy things and you won't think twice"! Your mindset is for her comfort and you wanted to make her happy always. Coz hurting her is your worst nightmare. Not unless you only wanted for that particular stuff and you'll say i love you? - back off.

She is more lovely that way. The funny thing is that, if my girl would say, i would deny her too.

I surmised this would depend on the cultural background of the ones in the relationship. If your culture dictates that it should be done before marriage and the guy persist on doing it then the girl has all the reasons to say no. But then if your culture does not dictates it then the girl might have other reasons if the girl says no. But if the guy really loves the girl the guy will surely understand the situation as long as they have discussed it thoroughly.

it OK for me if she decide it that way.. but its better to have an alternative.hehejoke If you love the girl of course you'll stay till the right time comes, that would become a girl measurement if that guy really love him.

For me if you really love a person try to respect her decision. If she is not ready right now respect her.On the other side, be a man dude if she refuse you on doing that love her more because specially now a days it is seldom to find somebody preserve her self until marriage.And think of this there a lot of things you can spend together that can make your relationship much stronger rather than doing what you want.