How do you attract the one of oppostite gender?

i don't need do a lot, i have just been me, if he like me, he will come beside me, if i try to make a different myself, i think i will be refuse by him after i have him, do you agree?

hi there! actually, i haven't shared this to anyone, but since mylot is my family too, i'll share my little secret, okay. when i am attracted to a person, i don't show off too much attention to him. i make a move carefully, a little unnoticed or not too publicly. in short, i don't show too obvious likeliness to him. i show just simple actions. you don't need to call his attention every time. from my experience, guys get too irritated with girls like that. and they are more likely to avoid them. so what i do is act simple. as if i don't like him at all, or i am not attractive to him. in that, he might think of you as different from the others. talk to him if he wants to talk to you,but avoid talking too much. smile often. and here's the most of it, learn everything about him. research and be friend with people closer to him. like the things he likes. guys always want to talk about the things they get addicted to, like games and sports. of course you will not going to tell him that you'll only learn about it because he likes it. pretend as if it was your favorite too. with that, he will like to be your friend because he'll think you both share the same interests. and last advice,"the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach", it worked for me, it will for you too. i bet. learn to cook, and learn to like the food he likes. it is the best time to share food while chatting. i think, i can stop from here now... anything after is up to your own. besides, i believe every one has their own special way of attracting people. live your best! happy mylotting! and good luck!

if she's not into you, little can be done, sometimes you can't do anything when someone is not interested to you, you can't force somebody.. specially if you already done the basics,,

I think lovehelpforgirls.blogspot.com might help you. Personally I think about us together and there's must have a good intention in there, like I imagine my self with him but willing to take care of him, make him happy as much as I want/think that he can make me. I send signal with my eyes. I believe guys never respect girls that throw them selves over them in a sexy way like wearing clothes that show everything, asking them out, I never do that. If I find a chemistry because of he already realised I like him, then I wait. I don't send any other clear signal to him but I do trap him to go out with me without his knowledge, like gathering a group of common friends and making him come and I don't even ask, just a way that you know that it's going to be certain that he will be there. I call for his attention by being really my self, I want him to have some interest for real, I don't pretend and don't play games. While we are talking I make these signals with my eyes, like I look at him in a way that I am already saying "I like you". Never sleep in the first, second, third.....3 months of dating. Never, well actually I don't even want, for me the heart comes first and all my girlfriends that cried for lost of interest from the guy were preatty fast to sleep with them. Men are hunters, they hate things that comes too easy. Girls that sleeps too fast are also a terrible future wife, they don't trust them. But of course, if the girl is like that then she must act the way she wants, I'm all for that. But not sleeping is the best. I also saw this woman that got every man she wanted, she got many marriage proposals and even wrote books about it, she also has the 3 months rule. If a girl gives the guy a time to make him get to know her and like what's inside of her, then he has the time to fall in love. Resuming it all, don't be to foward but don't be stucked. Act slowly and charming.

I would ask her about her life, I will not let her beat herself when she tries to, I will flatter her a lot, on her look and also on her characteristics. And on the right moment I will try to kiss her, not by force, but slowly and gently... if she is interested she won't stop me.

Let's be real my friend, if that person does not notice it's probably because he or she isn't th on for you. Like if someone isn't attracted to you for you are you should NEVER change yourself just to make them notice you trust me it is not worth it and usually it's those kinds of relationships that end up in the toilet. When you're being yourself, other people around you see it and they examine you and trust me when you the person that loves you for who yu are, the person that just can't get enought of you, you will be so hppy you have no idea. My advice to you is to forget your friend to not try too hard to get his or her attention because it will mea for you to change and you don't that..trust me ;)

i often say to my bf that i think it's not just beauty or physique but the wit and humor that attracts a person of opposite gender. =)

be as smart as you can and first attract the friends of her then she also get attracted or see her daily every time and one day just make her un noticeable then see that she will be surely be attracted

the question is tough because i'm not naturally a flirt..all i can do is make myself the prettiest that i could be and wear attractive clothes but still the decision would fall on the guy if he will take notice of your efforts... That's all that i can think of..just be yourself and don't try to be someone you aren't when you're with him...be natural..Go oN!!!