Cheating?
@ledifdynasty1994 (184)
Saudi Arabia
August 5, 2010 4:00am CST
Many stories I've heard and sometimes came from a friend all of this started from cheating.Why cheating happens?Is there any reason why cheating happens?Some of my friend tell me because they found excitement about it and some tells me they relationship to there partner is not healthy as in the beginning.For me there are many aspect of why it happens but one thing is for sure if you enter a relationship and you are not seeing your self at the end with them. Be reasonable dont commit youre self with somebody, Im sure all of you not sure of any relationship but i cant figure it out by choosing the right person.So cheating can prevent also.
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@crizjordan (108)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Cheating happens because of temptation and lack of prayers. Prayers are really very strong. You can get what you want when you pray with your heart. If we don't pray everyday our relationship with someone will shatter, We need to ask God for our relationship to be always stronger everyday. If we don't do that we can easily be tempted by satan to cheat to the people that we really care about. Do you noticed that after you cheat you will hear your inner self that will tell you why did I do that, I don't like to do that but why did I do that. You don't want to cheat but you are just tempted. Temptations are really very powerful when you are not praying, therefore you need to pray and ask God what you really want to happen.
@ledifdynasty1994 (184)
• Saudi Arabia
5 Aug 10
I think you are right if you and each in everyone have a strong hold to god, and God is the center of there relationship you will not think of cheating.We all know there are many temptation in life but if we have faith to god.You can really avoid on doing that. Very nice one,i really like your comment.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
There are several factors while some people cheat. In fact, I myself honestly have cheated before but I regretted and paid for it already. My reason was boredom. I mean, after several years of dating the same person, you tend to seek for new adventures. Maybe I just wasn't contented of him anymore. But I know its wrong and I'd never wanna do it again. Some people cheat as well because they aren't happy with their partners anymore. Like a relationship that gets cold..and you find comfort and spark from other people that's why there's a huge tendency to cheat. Also, loneliness especially for long distance relationships. Partners seek physical comfort but since they can't immediately have it, they find it with some other people instead. Cheating is bad even if you don't get caught. It is still something that I don't ever wanna do again because I also don't wanna get cheated by my partner. who does?
Best of luck.
@ledifdynasty1994 (184)
• Saudi Arabia
5 Aug 10
I'm my own perception there nothing wrong on cheating when you are still single. It a matter of choosing the right person that what you think will complement your need along the way.Cheating is bad when you are committed already.But as long as you as single be practical girl choose the best one.If you get bore to your partner that means he or she can't complement each other.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 10
everyone has the curiosity to try something that had never been done. It has become human nature. From a sense of knowing to try something, will eventually culminate in the act of cheating. But to some extent, cheating can still be considered a natural, but when it is excessive, this will be inconvenient
@ledifdynasty1994 (184)
• Saudi Arabia
5 Aug 10
I think curiosity will arise in any relationship.But if you've done it before you know the consequences of doing it again.The best way to prevent cheating is try everything you want before settling down to any relationship.Do everything when you are single right?
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Not everyone cheats in a relationship. There are many who can remain faithful in matters of the heart. When someone cheats on the one they love, something is surely missing in the relationship. We all make choices. Cheating is a matter of choice, not destiny. Once you have cheated, it is hard for trust to remain. Unless relationship issues are turned around, your cheating will not allow it to succeed.
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
6 Aug 10
Maybe people cheat so that they can have a change but I personally don't think it is right if you are in a relationship you should be loyal to that person, if you can't be loyal than you should not be in a relationship.
@spadmashree (49)
• India
5 Aug 10
People cheating others in every thing. People will cheat others until others are inocent. People must be careful in each step they take.
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
5 Aug 10
Cheating is unacceptable regardless of the situation. It happens way too often. I think cheating is a form of greed and looking after his/her interests rather than both in the relationship. I would never go back to a person who has cheated on me, because the problem that caused you to break up is still there. If someone wants to have multiple partners why do they decide to enter a relationship it is beyond my comprehension. Diseases happen for this very reason and it is disgusting.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
5 Aug 10
Quite a reasonable explanation. People just can't see the future with someone significant together forever. They will go sidetrack, and they seeking another opportunity I guess. Excitement can be another reason to relief the current loneliness. So, if you about to cheat, do take responsibility at the end result.
@casandra079 (19)
• Romania
5 Aug 10
I think that men cheat most.I can tell that from my own experience and from what ive seen around me..I dont know any woman who cheated on her partner but I know lot of guys who cheated on their wives and even having affairs, which sometimes destroyed their relationships.
And the worst thing is they dont consider it to be such a bad thing..They think its something that women kind of pass over in order to keep their husbands with them.And the truth many women do that , whether its a public cuple , such as the Clintons or just a regular one..Men cosider cheating almost like a right of them because they are not as forgiving s women when it comes to cheating..I think infidelity is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship and from that point on I dont believe a relationship is the same..
I think that if somebody betrayed your trust onec by cheating means he/she doesnt love you.And if it happened once it can always happen twice and so on..