Do you like people who talk a lot?
By velentina
@velentina (891)
Mauritius
August 5, 2010 10:46am CST
I prefer to talk with a person who talks a lot as they are open hearted. I have a friend who talks a lot....if you have to know something you just have to go to her she knows everything and keep news of everyone. I don't talk too much with people who talk less as I feel uncomfortable in their company. What about you?
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25 responses
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
6 Aug 10
I like who talk in sense and interesting topic..but I don't like people keep on talking annoying stuffs :(
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
I think it depends on what they are talking about. There are some people who talk a lot and say so many tings and its fun listening to them but there are also some who are very annoying. If they are annoying then I really dont like listening to them and I dont like them too.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
6 Aug 10
Hi Velentina!
I love to talk to a person, who is talkative. If the fellow in front of me is just keeping mum and also not allowing me to say anything, I will go insane. Talking is very essential to know about each other.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
6 Aug 10
Only if they can talk sense, also give other people the opportunity to talk to. And I appreciate good humor, not green ones. Green is okay as long as it's done sparingly.
I am also a talkative person and I do try to watch myself. I don't want to monopolize conversations because someday I'll give some people reason to avoid me because of that.
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
6 Aug 10
i like him or her if he or she is so kind and enthusiastical to people . but i hate somebody who are not so easy to other people so much, in our country . so many people talk so much . but he or she said will be forgetten little moment after talking . i hate that so much. but if we are good frieds and they talk with me so lot .i will be so happay . it shows our best friendship between each other .
@voldrox (7191)
• India
6 Aug 10
I don't really tag along with people who talk much. Firstly i am the kind of person who wouldn't want to say everything about myself when i first meet someone new, so that makes me a little less talkative. It takes me a little time to open up to people but i am a better listener. People who talk too much sometimes can get annoying as they sometimes repeat things over, and give us the feeling they don't really care what they are saying.
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
I would like to be with people who talk appropriately. Maybe talkative in a way that she is just trying to be approachable or accommodating to you. Also, if she is talking things with sense and only truth and not just gossips. I value privacy, that is why I am not comfortable talking about the lives of other people who has nothing to do with my life. So it really depends on the person. There are people who talk less if it is just their first meet. But once they became friends already, they are already comfortable to talk about anything. It really depends on who I am talking to.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 10
hi valentina!
i love being with other people who talk a lot but please not rubbish stuff and nonsense talk.i hate that the most.it's depends on the situation.if i was surround by people who talk a lot then i will be the listener and just talk when needed or to give opinions.while when i am with someone who talk less than no choice i will start to talk otherwise like you said it's looks kinda weird and feel uncomfortable in their company if there is no one's talking.--Hanum
@aurel83 (102)
• United States
6 Aug 10
good day valentina...
well, i like talking to people who talks a lot because to be honest i m a kind of person who talk less that i m a rather confused of starting a conversation. and to be around talkative people will help me to be able to communicate and be involved actively in conversational setting easier..
@markamemory (264)
• India
6 Aug 10
No one like people who talk a lot and hence the Saying "Speech is Silver and Silence is Golden" cos when you listen more you tend to learn more. That does not mean you should not contribure in a conversation at all. its not good to be known as the gossip mongerer but its nice to be up to date about everything which can be done by enhancing your listening skills rather then talking too much.
People who talk less are not necessarily bad and people who talk too much are not necessarily good. It alwasy good to know someone before you open your mouth to Jab.
@rangasri (45)
•
6 Aug 10
Generally every one loves to talk with another person who also talk in equal sense . i mean without any moody or resistence . normally it depends upon so many factors like , known / unknown person , mood of the person and more important is the time factor and interest aspect. the time and interest is seems to be the key factor and it is ruling the situation . even if you a person of talking a lot with another always , some times may be you are mood off or surrounded by other factors like family troubles or financial troubles or even sick like headache or fever or dullness , you may not like to talk as of earlier . this of course put the other person in akward condition . they start thinking that what happened to you today. like that .
this is the normal human tendency that one will not talk much with other person who is restraining himself from talk or not responding to your talks . naturally you feel uncomfortable in their company .
best way to better avoid those situations and move from that place for some time ..
@Onions (49)
• Singapore
6 Aug 10
Well, I guess I'm the direct opposite of you (:
I'm a rather quiet person so I don't really talk much and people seldom take to me. But I'm only cool with people I knew who talk a lot and I always listen to what they have to say. But if someone whom I do not know talk a lot beside me, I feel rather uncomfortable and at times it's really irritating since he/she is not talking to me but it's coming in my ears.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Good day to you.
With reference to your main query, it is fine with me to deal with those people who talk a lot. I respect their freedom in talking a lot. However, I also give respect for those people who talk less, maybe, they are just shy or they are the silent type of person but does not mean they dont want to talk or join in the discussion.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
5 Aug 10
Yup friend i too like such type of friends. They are too nice and they are open hearted and they always close compare to others. If friends are silent then its of no use its too boring to stay with them.
@lilangelspreschool (1129)
• United States
5 Aug 10
I like to be around people who talk but don't do ALL of the talking. I would like to get a word in sometimes too. We all have opinions on something so everyone should be heard.
@jesenia_209 (287)
• United States
5 Aug 10
Yes I do. They have so much to say and keep you listening =] Sure they can get a little annoying sometimes and if you don't want to hear them talk anymore just let them know...that's what I do :)
@venture (12)
•
5 Aug 10
I do not have a problem with people talking non-stop, my one and only concern is talking but not adding value.I want people who make me grow out of their talk.But then again too much of everything is bad. If a person talks forever you wonder when do they make time to listen to somebody for a change? A Smart person is one who makes time to listen to others because they too have their story to tell.There must be some kind of reciprocal relationship.Two way traffic if you know what i mean.