Do you still communicate with your ex?
By juliusports
@juliusports (274)
Philippines
August 5, 2010 12:28pm CST
how often do you communicate with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend, what for? and is it a bridge for a mere possibility of getting her/him back or just a simple friendship.
8 responses
@Sadie1675 (114)
• United States
5 Aug 10
For me it depends on the situation. I have one ex that I talk to all the time- we are still good friends. But there is another ex that I have blocked from my phone, online, and he doesn't know where I live. I think it depends on the break up and how well of friends you can stay. What about you? Do you still communicate?
@juliusports (274)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
yeah same as you, I only communicate those ex of mine who are good friends and will never ever ruin my status as of now. I'm happily married now and ex's are there to remain friends forever.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
6 Aug 10
I see my ex wives often enough.
The second one I see daily as she is a neighbor of mine and our youngest child still lives with her.
I am in constant contact with both of them mainly because of our mutual children.
I am still in contact with the last two girl friends that I have had after my second "divorce"
I NEVER leave a relationship unless I'm ASKED to do so.
I would love to have them ALL back even though I already have a new live girl friend and many lovers on the net. LOL
@tcup345 (358)
• United States
6 Aug 10
The only ex I have is an exhusband--I wouldn't communicate with him if he were the last man on this planet! He has blamed me for everything that is wrong in his life, so much so that he refuses to see our children and grandchildren. My youngest daughter has tried to be close with him, each time, he gives her some encouragement and then rebuffs her cruely. He uses me as the excuse. He's such as a**!
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Hi Juliusports,
There is no problem communicating with your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. However, it depends upon your motive or reason. If you are communicating just because you are trying to get back the old days, perhaps dont push it through. Good old days are not that easy to bring back especially if you hurt each other.
Hence, if you will just try to push through what has been ended, it will not start on the right track. It will not start on the right beginning.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Aug 10
i dont communicate with my ex..for me the present is the truth. I am married and keeping a relation with my ex will ruin my future. I dont want that to happen.
@unseenzy (171)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
We don't communicate and we don't have each other's number anymore.. We both decided to do that back then so that we could both move on.. Our relationship lasted for over 5 years so it was not an easy break up.. And if I'll be given a choice, I would prefer not to communicate with him still because he was just too perfect or too good to be true and I'm sure I can't help but to compare him with my current partner right now.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
5 Aug 10
I never communicate with any of my exes. The reason for this is that most of the breakups were bad and I really didn't have any desire to continue having a relationship with them after the romantic relationship was over. In addition to that, I've met and married the man of my dreams and I think that if I was to still keep in contact with those men that I used to date it would somewhat jeopardize our relationship and I would never, ever want to do something like that.