do u think that being a single is an advantage?????
By abj163
@abj163 (1037)
India
August 5, 2010 7:48pm CST
yes i think so...i think being a single is an advantage....i think if you are in relation then you always have some responsibilities....u always have fear of break up....you always try to show your lover how much you love to him/her.......
so to avoid heart break and many other problems remaining single is the best solution according to me.....
so do u think so mylotters??
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10 responses
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
6 Aug 10
I don't agree with you, one day you have to take some responsibilities so its not the matter or responsibilities...and I never try to show that I love her so much but the thing is we need to have a good understanding ...LOVE is beautiful ..and god made a opposite to have a company ..how long can you be single ?? I don't want to make a bore of my life...:)
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Hi abj,
I love being single. I do date and when I'm seeing someone I'm kind of half single. I will NOT live with a guy ever again. I love my independence way too much and don't take to control issues too well which has been my experience. Breaking up is way too complicated when you live together. I usually end up just taking my personal belongings and starting up over to avoid the battle over whose stuff is whose. I like having my own place (space). Being in a relationship without living together is complicated enough but I do venture out and give it a try from time to time. Sure, you have to be somewhat responsible for the other person's feelings etc. but that is (or should be) just respect and common courtesy. It should come natural. I suppose you could avoid some heartbreak by vowing to never give love another try but then you'd miss out on a lot of fun and any hope of ever having love in your life.
@megabiz (185)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Being single does have it's advantage. You don't have to answer to anyone but yourself. I have been in a marriage where it was more one sided and always having to do what the man wanted me to do, fix what he wanted me fix him to eat and do his laundry the way he wanted to have it done.
But, on the other hand, I miss being with someone. I know there is someone out there that is not the way my Ex was. There is a man that is better than that and willing to compromise as well as talk things out in a way we both agree. You tend to, as I do, miss being with that someone watching the sunset, waking up next to that smile an seeing the sun rise together. Holding hands, laughing, hugging and kissing. When you are with the right person that makes you feel like you're on cloud nine, then being single doesn't mean a thing.
@sincerelyne (156)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
well, in younger age, yes it is better if you are single,no hassle, yes no obligation, but as we are getting older, we will start to feel emptiness even if , maybe we are happy and satisfied with our lives, but somehow you will look for a companion,during bad and good times of our lives,we will look for someone to lean on.
@vooturi (157)
• India
6 Aug 10
Yes! Being single is the happiest thing ever
-U dont have tensions of ur girl
-U neednt buy anything to surprise her
-U can save money for yourself
-U can shop only for yourself
-U can spend time with ur friends and enjoy with them
-U dont fear of getting scolded for any misbehavior of yours
-U can save your mobile balance :D
LOL!!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Hi abj! You have no idea how right you are! You are very young and
will find out, probably over and over again, although I hope not!
I am not in a good place right now because my "relationship"
sucks! My bf/roommate is a complete azzhole with no feelings
for anyone but himself and I know I should throw him the hell
out because he isn't worth my time! Sorry for the mini-rant, but
my bf is very selfish and takes advantage of my paying the bills
and he is the cheapest azzhole I have ever met and I am getting
fed up and I just told him so! I am too old to play these games!
And definitely too smart!![](/Content/images/emotes/angry.gif)
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
6 Aug 10
I also enjoy being single (as in NOT MARRIED). But I know time will come that I would wanna settle down with someone. Yes there will be more responsibilities and obligations but I think you will reach a poiint when you will be ready for a partner, and a family.
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
6 Aug 10
I yearn the single life after I married, because it's not single life but for whole familiers. It has a proverb in China " the whole family will not be hungry when one is stuffed" The meaning is the advantage of single.LoL.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
There are some advantages and disadvantages being single. Being single would make you do things that you would like to do without worrying anything. However, being single would also makes us feel lonely and alone. I dont know but that's how I feel when I am single. Though I am single and preparing myself to be single forever.
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