Guys I need your thoughts on cheating, infidelity or womanizing....

Hi! I think cheating or infidelity is a complex process, it just does not happen in one day, it takes time to develop. One needs to keep a watch on his/her partner's activities and if s/he is doing something abnormal or unusual, suspicion may arise. I think bonding between two persons should be at good level and if one is ignoring the other, there are chances of infidelity.

hello maean! in order for you to perceive the signs whether your partner loves you more than their 2nd or 3rd, you have to be opened and astute to what he is not saying and his body languanges. one way to tell whether he loves you more is when you ask him to do something within his means but requires his devotion and time, he will readily support and cooperates with you. Another thing is, when he is with you, he is not busy texting or calling other people, other girls. he only has time for you, when you're together. another sign is, he bothers to ask you what's wrong with you if you're not your usual self and takes the time to listen to your woes and tries to assure you of your fears. when he is with you, his full attention is on you and he is not distracted, then that's an indication that you are far more important to him than anyone else. for the rest, rely on your hunch and feelings..it will lead you to the reality whether he loves you more or not.

Trust your husband, you know if the guy do bad things he has a lot of excuses and always tired for something even its not tiring. Check his things when you prepare maybe there are some marks left. Anyway don't be paranoid always have a self confident of yourself. Love your husband faithfully so he will not try to look into others.

To know if your partner is cheating you, then you must be able to rather feel and not just perceive. You have to know it through your sixth sense. Those who cheat they do so because they are the masters in the art of deception. They will make you believe that they truly love you, but they will be getting their pleasures elsewhere. It is very difficult to catch them. Your whole life will pass away and you would never know your partner was cheating you. The cheaters have no qualms of conscience. They do not care how much they are hurting you and others. All they are concerned with is their own pleasure and their own satisfaction. If you feel that your partner is cheating you do not think you are being paranoid. If you think that you will ever be able to confront him with facts; that you will be able to pitch it up to his face, you are sadly mistaken. This would never happen. In such case just go by your hunch and decide what is best for you and not only you for you both? Let him be free; and make you free as well.

Very good example here. My Ex's mom, whom is still like a mom to me and my two kids 16 and 17 year old live wither and there papaw. There papaw is a pastor. He use to be full time having his own church. In 1999 he started concealing this married women at his church office for her flashbacks on her being rapt by her dad many times. It got out of control with people who overheard as they passed the door. So he resigned from the church, continued to council her, but in the home behind closed doors. He proceeded to get closer to her as well as her two daughters and son all teens. I was still married at the time this was going on and noticed as well as my back then husband, his father on the couch an her between his legs resting her head on on his stomach. We kept trying to tell his mom to notice. She would keep telling us, they are just friends. But that is how my Ex's parents use to be. She started spending Saturday nights over there on an air mattress and him on the couch. Christmas became, crock pots, toasters etc... for my Ex's mom and necklaces, teddy bears, love songs downloaded off the computer for this lady. My Ex's mom kept saying, "they are just friends. He's married to me and loves me." That is why they have not slept in the same bed for 15 years. She comes over on his and her days off when my Ex's mom is working. She was blind of the whole thing until the first three weeks before there anniversary on July 26 when her husband told her that he is going to leave her for that lady. I believe that she had so much love for her husband that she just didn't want to see what was happening. You could tell, as this lady moved away from here to be with her mother in another state just 12 hours away, and even when in the same state, it was, texting him in the morning, afternoon, calling him on his way home and as soon as he hit the door, it was off the turn on the web cam to see her face chatting for three hours. I have a boyfriend that likes looking at Ukraine and Russian women on the computer but says he loves me and his looking at them is just a way to relax. I tend to agree with you mean. We women need some kind of assurance or security that we are the one and only one in your life. We want to know that our man will not cheat on us. We need to feel special. Woman are not objects. We are human beings with a heart of gold that doesn't wish to be lied to, cheated on, used for the mans pleasure only and used as a doormat. We want love, honesty, trust, and a signed contract that says, "THOU SHALL NOT CHEAT ON MY GIRLFRIEND/WIFE. I WILL BE TRUE TO HER WITH ALL MY HEART."

I'm not a guy but I think I have some good ways to tell if a guy loves you more than his other girls (if he has any) My boyfriend isn't cheating on me but there are things he does that show me he loves me more than anyone else. 1. If he will cancel his plans with other's so he can be with you. My boyfriend always does this.. He calls in sick for work, misses family dinners, weddings, get together's with his friends. If he does this without you having to ask this is a huge sign he loves you more than anyone else. It's crazy because I've never asked any of this from him and I think he's crazy for doing all that to be with me. 2. If he listens to you talk. If a guy doesn't care about a girl he usually won't care about her problems. If he does and tries to help you this is also a sign of love! Hope I helped you out a bit.. cheers

If you know a guy for so long, you should know his way of living, his daily routine. How he reacts on something. Now if he acted different from the usual, then he is hiding something. Now if you are his girl and you feel he is doing something unusual, then he is cheating