help my boyfriend broke me up..

Compose yourself. Let him see you as someone who is strong and who can live without him. Do not engage immediately on a relationship, chances are you are just looking for a way to fill the void that was left. Rejoice for the fact that you found out that you were not meant for each other. If you want to cry, do cry but a little. Laugh a lot. Smile a lot - Always. Keep yourself sexy and beautiful. Keep yourself busy; do what is it that you wanted to do like taking up short courses, go out with your friends who knows you might find someone new. Since he has already found another accept the fact that he is gone. Give yourself time to heal. It is only you who says you can't move on, eventually you will be able to move on because you MUST. If, in the future, you get the chance to meet up with him do thank him for those times of love. Happy myLotting!

It sounds like he isn't the right person for you. Breaking up is very emotionally painful but if you stay with a person that is wrong for you, you will end up being more hurt in the future. Talk to a friend, join a support group, stay busy and find other interest besides him. In time you will get over him and in time you won't hurt anymore. Be good to yourself and pamper yourself. Don't go back to him because he's not good for you and you will regret it. You can get over him; I know this from experience.

I'm sorry to hear about what happened. Well you don't deserve that guy. In fact, you deserve a man way better than him. He is selfish. Anyway, try to keep yourself busy for now. Focus on other things aside from your ex-relationship. Don't think of boys right now. It will help you forget him faster.

Hi rubelynrose, Sorry for your pain. If you have been in one or a hundred relationships,(figure of speech) breaking up will not be painless. However, we do, with time, get over them and move on to the next one hoping that this one is the right one. You are lucky if it is. You are probably pretty young, this may be your first relationship. First breakups will hurt the worse. Future breakups, even though they are not pain-free, you will be able to handle them better. If your ex-boyfriend is already flirting with another girl, why are you wasting tears over losing him. It is obvious that he is over you. He has moved on and so should you. You need to hold your head up and keep your dignity. If you show him that you are devastated over losing him, will comeback? Will the problem that broke you up still be between you? Could you forgive and forget? Let this one go and find someone that is worth of your affections. Time will heal your broken head. Staying busy with other activities will help.

It needs time. I guess this break up is new? Then try to seek your friends and hang out with them, shopping, watching comedy movies in theater, traveling, etc. And more than that just accept that he is not for you, especially when it's apparent he does not carry any broken heart. Maybe it is better for you to break up now than later.