What you will do if the girl you are in love avoids you?

I'm a girl so I would answer you as if I was the girl in the situation. It is always good for the guy to immediately tell the girl of his intentions. Consequently, the girl should tell the guy what his chances are. Since the girl likes the guy too, I think the guy should show the girl that he's willing to wait until their situation becomes right for a relationship. Perseverance is always a good thing.

Hi shiyam06, I am sorry for the plight that you are bearing. It is difficult when two people are in love and that love is forbidden because the family of one of the two don't approve. Whether these reason are because of religion, race, or other wrong thinking reason, it is still a sad situation. This is a very serious situation, because chooses will have to be made. Do you stop trying to see each other or do you defye the wishes of the family and getting married without their blessings? If you are serious about this relationship becoming an accepted one, The both of you may try speaking to the family together. Letting them know that your intentions are good, couldn't hurt. In fact, showing respect to the family and the young lady has got to give you some good points in the eyes of the family. I wish you well.

Then i would not be in love with that girl. I would know that it is only a crush and nothing more. The girl i love should feel everyday about me,see me, talk to me be with me all the time she can be and should do everything i want. I should also feel like i could do anything for her. Than i would know that i truly love her. I would neglect a girl who avoids me because then i would know that she doesn't want me anymore and then i would just stay away from her. But the one i love would be as how i described she would be.

I will try to convince her and show her that i love her lots. But if she does not agree then i will be left with no option to cry, act crazy for a week and then carry on with life. Life has to always move on.