What was really his problem?
By eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
Philippines
August 6, 2010 9:42am CST
I don't intend to generalize all the gays in the world but whenever I'm with him, it makes me think that gays were born to be insecure and stubborn.
I had this classmate and he's a certified gay. At first, I find him interesting because I love to be with gays. He always criticizes the way I look, act, and everything.
I tried to stay away from him but he wants to be close with me. He was like, "are you angry with me?" and I would say no because I know that he will react. I don't seem to like his attitude. He seemed intelligent but he doesn't have any good heart and a good thinking. 
5 responses
@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 10
Some gays are the best!!!! I'm serious.. I recently had a good friend and he is gay, and he was like calling me his BFF and all, but it turned out that he is a selfish, dumb and doesn't have any good heart or good thinking almost just like yours..
He doesn't criticize me like how your friend did to you, but he is selfish because he only thinks of himself, he keeps complaining he doesn't have money and then he keeps using it, and we used to live together and he persists on getting a 2 year lease, and he only stayed a few months then said he doesn't want to stay there anymore and don't bother about rent or whatever.
At least yours is intelligent.. the one that I know is such a dumb twart.. Seriously, he could actually ask me whether labor day is a holiday? (there's more) lol
I would say chill, just leave it be, sometimes those friends are not worth to be friends with. They should just tattoo their forehead with selfish useless.
He's so insecure. I really wonder why he's like that. He acts as if he is rich but he's really not.@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 10
OMG!! Just the same as my almost ex friend!! He does like to have expensive lunches when he cannot afford it.. To me, I do think it's an inferior issue and also that I think they actually care about their appearances too much..
oh well..
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
I think there were a lot of people who were like him. I know that he's not rich because it shows. No matter how he hides it, he will always remain cheap. OMG! I'm so mean. My friend yesterday was hurt because the gay ask for a tissue, my friend told him that she has a tissue but it's cheap, and the gay told her that, "it's okay, anyways you're cheap!" I can no longer take his being so mean.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
6 Aug 10
As much as I'd like to chat with you I really don't think that this is the place for individual questions.
How can I or any other responsible person give you advice about someone we don't know, and we don't know YOU that well.
We don't know how this person fits in in your life relative to the many others that you know
If you want to talk about him specifically then please contact me individually.
Don't you know that I'm here for you ?
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
8 Aug 10
i don't think that's so much a "gay" thing than a him thing.
some people just think they're 'helping' being critical of others.
they usually don't realize they're pissing off the other person.
@shira0524 (482)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Some people just act like that whether they're gay or not.
@smartie0317 (1610)
• United States
11 Aug 10
If he's always saying mean/critical things about you, he probably doesn't like himself very much and wants to displace his anger on you. I think you need to cut your ties with him. He sounds like a toxic person.
