why do mature females attracts boys more than girls????
By abj163
@abj163 (1037)
India
August 6, 2010 11:54am CST
i am not sure i am correct or not...but according to my experience....i gets attracted to mature married women more than girls....and this is applicable with my friends also...so i think maximum guys are just like me.....but i am unable to find the reason behind it......
do they try something to attract us???
ladies do u try to attract young boys????
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@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
6 Aug 10
I'm not trying to attract anyone :D Because i have boyfriend. But when i was single, i didn't try to do it too. There are moments for everything, is some of this moments, to have boyfriend is not the most important thing. Sometimes we focus at our own life, personality, job, friends and it's not big deal who likes us as girls, and who doesn't :)
Women are interesting, because they have experience, they know how to act and what to do, to be special and interesting. And there is some risk with married women, may be this is interesting for the young guys ;)
It's personal ... only you can say why are you so attracted of women. :)
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@abj163 (1037)
• India
6 Aug 10
no....its not personal....i am sure about it....maximum guys like mature women.....but the thing is only some of that guys like me express it.....and some dont.....may be fear is a reason behind that.....but i am sure that i am not alone in this list of guys......
haha
happy mylotting
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Aug 10
abj some young men get attracted to mature married women as they look for a mama figure subconsciously as maybe their moms just did not mother them enough, but my own theory is that we married mauture women are actually safe, the boy can fantasize all he wants to but as she is married he does not have any right actually courting her. so she is safe to moon over.
Now I am way past that as I am old enough to be your grandmother but In all my life after I was married I never dia anything to attract a young mans attention. And one who had a crush one me, I gently dissuaded him that I was v ery happily married and he must find a single girl for himself as while flattered I would never do anything to jeopardize my own marriage.he was 19 and I was 32, hardly a good situation and the fact that my own hubby was disgusted with him, did not help the situation at all.
I would seriously advise you to run, not walk away from mature married women. find a girl close to your own age, but one who is single.
@thedataminer (515)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Some years back I had this really bad no good boyfriend for only a few months thank goodness. Now he was kind of stupid to and he had a bad character. He had this perverted thing for young girls. He would talk about them constantly and he would be looking at them in Walmart. However, some young men might be attracted to older women since an older woman probably has more experience plus she's had more years to find herself. Therefore she may appear more interesting. But to answer your question this can go both ways depending on the man.