Does it really matter if you're virgin or not?

Hi Goldamier, Do you mean that guys are looking for virgins as brides or just to be in a relationship with? I would think that any guy would like to have a virgin wife. But I think they will be hard pressed to find many virgins now a day. And I do mean in many countries, but I think there are counties that insist that the wife to be is a virgin. I can understand guys desire to have an untouched maid in his bed, but on the other hand the guys will go out and defile a young lady with no intentions of marrying her.So, why should he be given a virgin bride when he has deflowered her. Young people just want to be together, they don't think about getting married and remain pure until the wedding night. They are living in the moment.

Oh my! I never thought this question is still relevant. But yes, the only answer to this question will be based geographically. In the city, virginity does not matter. In rural areas, people think virginity still gets a few points among men.

i think it all depends on your personalities.if you really loved the person,you can accept them,whether they're still virgin or not.it doesn't matter,actually!it all depends on you.if you are looking for virginity,i can say,you are more of lust not in love.when you love,you can accept whoever the person is and whatever he is.but i can say,of course,to be with virgins is really an importance to men.

Of course some men look for virgins, and then some don't. It also depends on where in the world you live. Some countries it's nearly impossible to find a virgin these fays, and in some countries you must save yourself for marriage. Where I live I know a couple people who are looking for virgins, but most people aren't. Guys tend to prefer virgins though I've noticed.

id still prefer to have a virgin girlfriend. But of course it wont be proper to ask a girl who im courting with if she is still a virgin, ayt? But if i have a choice prior to courtship, defintely without a doubt, prefer virgins...haha

verginity is certainly good and every body likes ,but many times damaged due to sports or accidents ,we should not be serious about it

I wouldn't be surprised if there are, but if they had any experience themselves I would consider them hypocrites.

dear goldamier, i think most asian men have that mentality. they prefer that they teach rather than being taught. ann

It really depends on the guy. There are guys who would prefer their bride virgin. Some are open minded about this. I have a lot of male friends, and i already asked this question before. Most of my guy friends told me that it does matter, but there are exceptions to the rule. Nowadays, people become more liberated. So if they fell inlove with someone who's not virgin, it doesn't matter. It's not the measurement of love anyway.

virgin complex, oh my god~

Dont mind those perrrrverts!!!!! Check their history they have disvirgined a lot of girls and when they want to settle down they would prefer a virgin girl. When i was in the university i had this one friend who slept with a lot of ladies as of he was a dog,im talking 2 separate women a day sometimes but when we left and was time for him to get married he started telling me that the standard of his wife is that she must be a virgin.Imagin,