Who decides....

yes you are right^^ for me when we really love someone we cant be too long away from that person. but why guys i always like they say they love me and never care so much? they always act careless. why people just say i love you but dont show it? me im always the one showing love more. im sick of it. why cant guys say i love you and show it always? we should talk everyday a bit at least so we feel loved and cared but why some guys cant see it? im happy you and your bf spend much time together^^ thats what everyone should do^^

Same here...my partner decides. i hardlyget anytime from work. But when she knows that i am free she decides where we go and what we do on a week off.

My husband and I wants to spend our time together with our children if we are to choose. But sad to say he can't stay with us because he is working abroad. He is somewhat happy if we talked through phone, sending sms and talking in skype. It's very hard but even though our distance, I can really feel how much he loves us. During his vacation, he laways stay at home and cherish every moment he's with us because a month or two he's gonna be back there in the ship. working again. :-(