whould you trust your patner while he/she still dealing with some one else?

I'm going to tell you what I tell all my girlfriends, cause every girls has a story similar to this. So, you went behind his back and read hist text messages and e-mails, you found something bad and are hurt. He shouldn't be having inappropriate conversations with other girls, but you know what? You shouldn't read his private messages either. You may be having difficulties in trusting him again, but I bet he is wondering how much he can trust you. Invading someone's privacy he's just plain wrong. I hope you can work it out.

Hi anitarei321, Sometimes, people find themselves falling in love with someone who is still in a relationship or a just ended relationship. Nevertheless, they are caught in the middle of an unfinished romance. If you think that this is the case with you and your friend, you should probably, no, you should find out from him if this broken relationship with the other person is going to mend and you are just a temporary replacement until then, or is he really finished with his previous partner? Watch his reactions, you will get a sense if he is lying. Reading his body language is very important, if you really want to know the truth. He should be able to make eye contact with you, if he cannot look you in the eyes while he talks to you, watch out. If he is moving and talking faster that he usually does, watch out. In the end, after deciding that he is not be truthful, you will have to make a decision. You will decided to either stay with him and be the third party, (the least important member) or you will let go and see if you will ever become the one and only girl for him. I won't waste my time if he couldn't me all mine.

I think you need to give your bf a chance to prove his honesty. I know you been hurt and you feel some doubt about him. But he also deserves one chance. Then,if you feel he really is cheating on you,that will be the right time for you to decide. Love is understanding and forgiving without asking the reason. Happy mylotting and have a good weekdays ahead

first just ask him and dont accuse him instantly...and if say no..then try to consider it as a relief but it doesnt mean that you have to stop finding the truth lol...just trust your instinc...if you know theres somethihng wrong then it is not bad to find a way how to solve it...so goodluck:)

you should just give him a chance and if he still breaks your heart..then that's the time that you should decide to leave him...take it from me..i've been there..and i got a blessed life after that incidence cause my partner became more loving after he realized how much i loved him..despite with what he have done to me and my son.

you should clarify things with him...about what you read...don't easily jump to conclusions and judge him directly without confronting him, he deserves to explain his side of the story. if you really love him and that if your really meant to be then i guess love will find a way, corny as it may seem but i think you just have to trust love...^^

If I were you, here is what I would do. Give him a chance, but be careful to see what kind of person he is. Is he trustworthy in all things? Does he treat everyone well? Pretend he's your best friend, and be as good a friend as you can be to him. Eventually you will either find out he is not the kind of person you want, or he is. But the truth will come out in time.

hi anitarei! i know it is hard sometimes to trust someone because we do not want to get hurt. what you need is to trust your instincts and always remember that when you start a relationship it must always start with love and honesty. do you believe him that it was over between them and do you trust his words when he told you that he decided to be with you? if you do then stay. whenever you start a relationship there will be always a risk. risk to get hurt, risk to lie sometimes because you dont want to hurt your partner i know it is wrong but sometimes it is the reality. even in marriage there is no guarantee that no problems will come along. what you need is to trust that feeling inside of you. and know your limitations. you need to know if it is worth fighting for or you are just hurting yourself for someone who is not worthy for your love. i cannot tell you what to do. but i want you to love yourself first. before loving someone else so you wont lose yourself when things go wrong. happy day to all!

Don't let your relationship ruined only by the email that you read. I also felt that way before, I read something on the email of my boyfriend and he said that it was all in the pass. At first I'm also hesitant to trust him, believe me it's very hard to build the trust that was broken. Still I decided to forget it since I love him and I wanted to stay on the relationship. After that it didn't happen again and I am confident that he is true to his words. So why not forget the pass after all, we are leaving in the present and the important is your are happy. Pass is pass, try to move on from it. Good luck!

Give him and yourself a chance. Try to have a conversation with him and be honest about your doubts. In loving someone you take the risk, but try to put trust on him so you would have peace of mind. Tell him also to be honest with you. And if you encounter this problem again and you have proofs that he really has another affair or relationship, then that is the time I mus say you put an end to it. Because after all he is not yet your husband. Hope this helps!

It is worse. He needs clean up for do wrong. You need to sit talking with him giving time. You decide what you want kept on him or not. If you love him, but you don't allow him cheating on you.