What is the right age when a couple wants to get marry?
By tyra005
@tyra005 (151)
Philippines
August 8, 2010 11:59am CST
In this days, there are lot of young people who are getting married at their very young age. Do you think teenagers are ready to sacrifice the nature of parenthood?
4 responses
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
8 Aug 10
I think people should wait until atleast 25. I would like to wait until I'm 30. I want to experience life first, and no I don't mean I'm going to go date a bunch of guys. 
I have a boyfriend actually..
But what people need to do is get through highschool and college first. Your experiences there might affect who you are as a person for the rest of your life. If you get married in highschool.. You're still young and many are not ready to "settle down." You might meet another person soon after and fall in love with them too.
Personally I see no rush to get married. I'd need to be 110% sure before i make that decision. There's no point in getting married if there's any chance it will end in divorce. I don't want to go through that.
Kids should be kids! Why should they have to give up their childhood so young? There's plenty of time for them to be adults when they grow up.
I have a boyfriend actually..
But what people need to do is get through highschool and college first. Your experiences there might affect who you are as a person for the rest of your life. If you get married in highschool.. You're still young and many are not ready to "settle down." You might meet another person soon after and fall in love with them too.
Personally I see no rush to get married. I'd need to be 110% sure before i make that decision. There's no point in getting married if there's any chance it will end in divorce. I don't want to go through that.
Kids should be kids! Why should they have to give up their childhood so young? There's plenty of time for them to be adults when they grow up.
@tyra005 (151)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Yes you are right too and I am interested to read your long comment about getting married at the right age because as I encounter in this world there are lot of teenagers who fall into getting married at the very young age and after getting to it they don't know ow to keep their family from living a good life. How do they do it? They don't have a job and even they don't have enough knowledge to apply for a better job that could offer them. What I mean is not enough qualification. So for me, it is much better f they will enjoy first their lives at their young ages before getting into an obligation.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
8 Aug 10
Also (sorry to add to my already long post..)
People change as they get older, they might not be the same person when they're 30 as they were when they were 16. The couple might not love each other anymore as they grow older and mature.
People change as they get older, they might not be the same person when they're 30 as they were when they were 16. The couple might not love each other anymore as they grow older and mature.
@officialtru1 (49)
• United States
8 Aug 10
As long as both the girl and guy are mature enough and are 100% sure that that is what they want, then it is alright to get married no matter what is your age, if both are ready to depend on each other and not someone else.
@tyra005 (151)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Yeah I guess so when they are ready for everything it is the best time for them to get marry. I also wanted to get marry when I have everything, my own house, my own car, things and I have a stable job where I could get my income to spend for my family.
@tyra005 (151)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Yes you are right. I am 26 now and now I am planning to get marry with my 30 year old boyfriend. We are having a lot of time to know each other and I am thinking that we are ready to face the hard life of married people. Isn't it interesting right? Have you gone into marriage? Thanks for your response.
