What are the different way to say "NO" without hurting someone?????

Sometimes you just have to be honest and say "no" because if you don't you are going to let that person walk all over you. It's okay to say no.

You could say something like "I don't think that is wise," and that will give the other person time to think about what he wants to do. If it is financial or giving presents, just say that you cannot afford it at this time, but maybe later and be sure that person does not see you go into any expensive restaurants unless someone else is paying.

It is very mature and noble to just say "no"! While some people do not appreciate the truth, being truthful is always very noble.

thepankajnegi I was a yes person when I was not able to say no, then learned I can say no but kindly. I am asked to lend some money and I can say sorry but I had a lot more month than funds and am completely broke. this was so lie and the friend went on to borrow from her mom. or please will you watch my plate, I have a phonecall, and I h ave to say Perla I have to go also or I would. As there was one other person at our table besides the silent Celia who swipes food, we prevailed on her to stay long enough so Perla could get back.Now here If I am hit on to borrow money when shopping I just say sorry I just took out enough to buy the few things I need. wish I could help you but I cannot. this does not seem to make the other person hurt or angry. I did loan three dollars to this one ditzy lady here and only got one dollar back so no more yes from me.

I think that you should be honest. You can say "No" but justify, give them you reasons why you need to say no.

Wish I knew the answer to that friend but I don't as I am the guilty one that always says yes even when it should be a no. So I find myself jumping hoops and obstacles to fulfill the yes that should have clearly been a no.