How do you manage yourself after break-up?

Its a part of life and hopefully it means you can move on and find someone in the future you can settle down with or you never know you may get back together. As for now its a good idea to get on with everything and find something you enjoy to fill up the time abit more.

face everyday with a smile. Go and enjoy being single. Do a makeover of myself. Stay positive.

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it's really hard for me,always for Scorpio people,love is deep love,hate is just forever hate.when I decided to make relationship with somebody,I will devote myself to him,if he thought I'm not the Ms.Right,after asking the problem,if he tell the truth,I accept then lose connection with him forever.

Breaking up is the hardest part in a relationship. First, If you want to cry dont hold back just do it. This will help you release the pain and gain strength. Second, help yourself, no one can help you except yourself. It is only you who can determine what you really want, to move on or stay. Ask yourself what you really want. Take your time, because in everything you do and decisions you make it is only you who will suffer or gain more not the people around you.

Breaking up with someone is hard. There are things you need to let go even if it will hurt you. The feeling is indescribable, the very low point in your life that you can never imagine. But the feeling is momentarily. Step by step you have to move on with your life. Always think positive and take everything as a challenge. Its a spice to life :)

Hi, There are a few very definite phases of recovery. Right at the moment the break up is officially announced, this process of self healing begins. The best way to deal with a break up is to know these phases beforehand. Read http://www.wikinut.com/how-to-survive-a-break-up/z1.q0bmr/f2x_t7lc/ and you will be able to actually identify the phases that you are going through. All these phases may occur one after another. Some of them may even occur simultaneously. The very first step starts with the realization that what has happened can never be reversed. In this phase the victim faces many false hopes and then eventually starts taking things more practically. The last step is always forgiving and forgetting. But in between these two extremes there are so many confused thoughts and feelings and several stages of restoration and changes of ideology. The process is though quite natural. This means, even if you don't make active efforts to heal yourself, you will recover. But the natural process can be accelerated with your active participation. Thanks. God bless you

Breaking up is a difficult experience especially if the relationship has lasted for quite some time. However one needs to accept the fact and think that it is most probably for the best. Probably there is someone much better for you out there, just wait and see...good luck

first you tell? then i tell to you.. hahahahaha

i make sure to remind myself i live for a purpose and that is to make myself useful to the world and the society. =)

i broke up one time with my ex and i been sad sure but i broke up bcs i already didnt love him like before bcs he was always acting careless and i was sick of it and feelings disappeared anyway i been in situation that i had to stop talking with a guy i really cared about but he keep and keep hurting and being stupid for no reason bcs we were best friends till he change so he was the one losing and not me even im sad i know that wasnt my fault what happened but his.

About this problem,you must to find the root why do you break-up firstly! The second, you can manage yourself by a correct method to avoid your negative mind or fear mentality.You can positively face with everything and make some active things to promote your confidence.wish you can find your confidence and holp you can conqer youself.

i tend to let go of all the feelings and say to myself that life should go on. "i have my own life without him, and it's beautiful."