You carefully say things.
By sjaswon
@sjaswon (635)
Jamaica
August 9, 2010 8:42pm CST
My friend is a young woman. I remembered When she, her daughter and I walked on the street after completed our work.
She talked with me. She said "My man and I were together about 8 years." They and I still walked.
I said her "Wow, This is wonderful. You were continuing in touch with your man."
She still said "He is nice man. He was sleeping good with me at night." I surprised to think that we forgot her child
I warned her "Your child listen me and you what we talk things. she will be telling her father what happened. He will become angry with you." Her mother talked to stop quiet. They and I still walked to almost reach to the town.
7 responses
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
12 Aug 10
Yeah children's do repeat things. 'cause they do less understands when grown up speaks. So usually they try to create fun all the time. It was cool that the mother shut up.
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@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
12 Aug 10
When the children were not here around. Then the mother can talk more.
I am afraid the children grows up. They remembered what the mother talked about. They can't forget it. Perhaps, they will ask her what you talked at night. What would she do? I have no idea.
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
11 Aug 10
Whatever they grow up to be, they are still our children, and the one most important of all thing we can give to them is unconditional love. Be friendly to then every time. Not a love that depends on any thing at all except that they are our children. Be careful with then.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
10 Aug 10
It's good you reminded her of her child.
Take care with talk. Kids are smart.
You did really good.
@mzbunnylove05 (223)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Your friend should be careful not just to her words but also with her actions. Children thinks that what they see from adults are right. You are a good friend. Just keep on reminding her what is right to do. :) Happy mylotting!
@PriscaJoanne10 (292)
• Mauritius
27 Aug 10
There are things which can be said in front of a child and things which should be personal between husband and wife...As a couple you should know at which time to have such conversations....
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Children always mimic what they see and hear from adults, that is just their nature. So if a child tells you something, it is most likely true, and children don't lie, they don't know the concept of lying yet, that is why they always end up telling the truth, based on what they saw and heard
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@Chubsko (51)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Yes you must carefully say things for children to hear so that they can understand it and also you must not say things that is inappropriate for their age. In that way you are guiding them the right way.
