I love You ???
@thepankajnegi (492)
India
August 9, 2010 9:17pm CST
hi mylotters .. I want to share that this three words are the most powerful words and can change any body's life in secs...When you start loving someone then you also start loving the whole world and it change you life forever..what impact you had in your life with these three words ???
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@gaboni (644)
• Israel
10 Aug 10
Oh you know just the usual stuff. Some rejections here and dates there, nothing special.
I think that these days people just rush to say that powerful phrase, that it just lost some of its powers. But even though, it always makes you ridiculously happy when you hear it from someone, even if you don't feel same thing to that person..
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Aug 10
hi gaboni when the right persons says that to you you will feel altogether different, when you love and he loves back the world
is your oyster and you feel like you could have anything be anything
as its well indescribable. I was married for 33 years so I loved and was loved.
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@gaboni (644)
• Israel
11 Aug 10
WOW! That is awesome! (like the number of your responses)
My parents are only twenty one years together so thirty three sounds huge next to it.
Still have not met the right one which will make my head spin.
Sounds from your mouth like it is the best thing ever...
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
11 Aug 10
Hi thepankajnegi,
I love you, are three of the most beautiful and powerful words any one could want to hear. When you say "I love you" to someone of the opposite gender that you are romantically attracted toand the feelings are returned , it gives you a warm glow, your body is filled with much passion for that person. You wish the whole world could be as happy as you are. This love and passion can last for a very long time, maybe even forever.
When you children come into this world, that is the love that is forever. They can do nothing on this planet that could kill your love for them. I love mine beyond anything I can compare. I don't always like their choices, but how I love them anyway, to my last breath.
Love is like eating carbohydrate, the comfort food which makes you feel full and satisfied. However, we have to remember that sometime love can bring us crashing like the carbos, if we don't choose wisely.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
11 Aug 10
yes I find these 3 words are magical words and you need not to do strong worship to gain that magical power ...I love you
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Aug 10
the song from Phantom of the opera Love Changes Everything is right on
cue. We see the world differently and loneliness becomes an old forgotten feeling. You are fulfilled with a loving husband and then loving and loved
children too.You are happy and you sing and smile, and save hello to everyone. Its a wonderful state to be in and can last for a lifetime.
love is a grand emotion and we should not waste if on chocolate or ice cream those are likes, great likes but just likes. I love someone, my family my kids. my dog or cat, my hubby or my wife.I love my best friend
but I do not love horseradish on my roast beef, I like it.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
11 Aug 10
It has change my world also and this new world is amazing and I cant live without ...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Aug 10
The feelings I get when I hear the I love you and or I say I love you are:
1. My heart starts to race, pumping blood and oxygen to my brain
2. I feel like I am in heaven and evil does not exist
3. All the worries in the world no longer exist
4. By golly I am am the happiest woman alive
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
11 Aug 10
Yes these three words are magical words and gives lot of comfort I hear them ...love you all
@GDTimothy (446)
• United States
10 Aug 10
Yes, those three words can have an immense impact on one's life!
Unfortunately for me, the impact has been more pain than joy. Love just hasn't worked out for me. I understand the psychology and biology of love, and it's really quite amazing to contemplate that such a thing has evolved to such a finely tuned response and sometimes overpowering effect on behavior.
It can be a wonderful thing. And when it happened to me, I got lost in it easily and reveled in the fantasies it engenders. But when love is unrequited, it can have devastating effects. And the impact of betrayal once you have committed to a love relationship is every bit as powerful as a love shared. It ultimately destroyed who I was at one point. And then it took me literally years to recover and remake my completely shattered self into something a bit less naive and less controlled by the winds of affections driven by simple chemical and hormonal effects.
So, while I recognize that love is generally considered a positive thing, I also much be honest in the negative impact it has had on my life.
Some of us are lucky. Some of us are not. But to truly know love, I think one has to learn a certain restraint so that you can fully be certain and aware of love that is not a short term affectation. Knowing the love of a learned love is one way to do this. Committing to a rational process of learning to love when love is not already controlling you, is a love that holds even more potential than that which is inspired by hormones and "chemistry" alone.
At least, that's what I've learned about "I love you!"
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
11 Aug 10
Yes love can have both kind of impact on your life but that depends on how you have handle it... Those who got their love are extremely lucky.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 10
the impact that I felt when heard the words "I love you", just same like the impact that I felt if I say these words. The effects of what I felt is as follows:
1. Confused and anxious,
2. Limp helpless.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
11 Aug 10
Why are you confused ? saying I love you make you confuse and anxious, I never experienced that but it makes me excited .